lewellen9581 Posted December 26, 2006 Share Posted December 26, 2006 I know this is a little off topic, but I had to put this on here. Right now everything in life seems so unfair. My Dad is losing his very short battle with Cancer, and it hurts me so much to see him wanting to give up, but not sure if he should. Also, it seems so unfair that my fids are about to lose their only Grandpa. My Father in law passed away about 3 years ago. My Daddy is the only person, aside from my kids that I talk to EVERY day. With my husband being in the military, he an be gone adn unable to talk for weeks at a time, but I always talk to Daddy every morning and every night. I dont have that now, and it hurts me so much. But, what I do want to say is what I am THANKFUL for: I am thankful that I have 2 healthy kids, Cancer is a terrible thing, and I cannot imagine havng to see my babies fight for their lives the way Daddy has, and I know it happens every day. I am thankful that my children have both parents here that are healthy and able to provide a loving home for them. I am thankful that although my Daddy is sick, that I am grown now, and able to care for myself. I wish I could keep him forever, but I know I will survive without him, and he knows that too. I am thankful that my Husband was here for Christmas this year. I am thankful for the past 24 years I have been able to spend with Daddy. 24 Birthdays, 24 Christmas's, and 24 Fathers Days. I am also very greatful that he seems at Peace with everything going on. As horrible as this past few months have seemed to be, I know that it could be so much worse. I just needed to remind myself that I do have many things to be greatful for. This has helped me, I hope it helps you too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikkala Posted December 26, 2006 Share Posted December 26, 2006 I am thankful you reminded me of this all. I am thankful I have to healthy wonderful kids and I am thankful I have a husband who loves me with all his heart. I am thankful for all the wonderful holiday memories from my childhood. I am thankful for today and tomorrow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamataca Posted December 26, 2006 Share Posted December 26, 2006 Cool way to change your perspective. It's so easy to get drug down into the sadness of these days. Nice job! Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted December 26, 2006 Share Posted December 26, 2006 A good reminder to us all. Sounds like the positives outweigh the negatives. I am thankful that I had 47 years with Lucie. I am thankful that I have 3 great kids who love and support me. I am thankful that we are all together this week. I am thankful for my Lord and all the wonderful community of faith support I have. I am thankful I can still laugh and make jokes. Etc. Etc. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adela Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 Don I was not as fortunate as you, I had 9 wonderful years with Ed. I am grateful for my daughter, son-in-law,granddaughter, son and extended family. I am grateful for the memories and able to remember them. Adela Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 Adela, I know 9 years seems like not so much when compared with 47, but I am sure the 9 were packed with good times and golden memories. Remember that many on here lose their spouses in far less than 9 years. There is no fairness -- just "it is what it is". I wish you peace. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michelepal Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 WOW!! Thank You!! You are one amazing women.. I was 40 when my Dad passed away and I felt as if I was short changed, but reading your post it kinda set me straight.Stop being so selfish and get a grip you had your Father for 40 years.. Thank You! Michele Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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