Terry,
Welcome, but sorry you are here.
If you read my profile, my husband is very similar to yours. He also does not ask the drs. about the stats or survival rates. Albeit, the drs told us from the beginning that there was a 40% cure rate with his type of cancer and because he was young and healthy. He turned 61 in Jan.
I only research the treatment options and side effects. If I accidentally get to a site that preaches gloom and doom I am gone. The stats only put me in a deep funk and I do not want to be in any kind of funk when I am with him.
Why are they not talking surgery??
It looks like my husband will have some long term problems from the whole brain rad. They think it damaged his inner ear, so he has balance and vertigo probs. They told him he will learn to compensate, since the meds to help this only make you sleep. Also, his concentration and short term memory leave something to be desired. But these are constantly improving and our onc. said other parts of his brain will continue to take over for the cells that were damaged in radiation.
Glad you are here, it has been infinitely helpful to me.