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Here's a tip for an upset stomach. If the saltines don't help, try using graham crackers instead. Yes, this is a tip that came from my obstetrician (sp?) when I was pregnant, but I've used it for other things and other people have tried it and it did help. Sometimes it's the salt on the saltines that make you sick also. Or I think they make saltless saltines now. Praying he is able to take this without those dreaded side effects. Blessings

Praying that your father will get his strength back...

I'm so sorry dean. I was going to suggest the same things the others did. Is there a possibility that the cancer society has some sort of used equipment that you can use for free? I know it's a long shot, but maybe someone else knows somewhere.

Have you ever played Tiger Woods golf for GameCube? It's not the same, but my husband (who loves to golf) loves this game! Better yet, if it rains on the course, you stay dry! Glad to hear about the tumor shrinking.

Praying that all is clear or it is just some minor scar tissue.

Marylou, You talked about feeling numb right aftwards. Years ago a friend of ours was killed. My husband is a family pastor and all of the staff got together to grieve and sort of work through the beginning stages of it all. One thing that was mentioned is that this is like God's novocaine. It enables us to get through the initial shock until we are at a place to deal with the loss. I know that doesn't really help you, but maybe something it's something in which you can relate. This is an awful disease and I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings and hugs

Hi Denise, I posted to you in the other forum, but wanted you to know I'm still praying...

God I've been in those situations as everyone here has. Maybe not exactly that, but those stinky waiting games. I am not great with a lot of patience anyway, but I try. Here I found it to be excrutiating. My prayers are with you that the waiting game will go quickly and it is a cancer free answer! Prayers and Blessings

DeanCarl, You are an amazing individual. I want to say thank you to you. Thank you for several reasons: First, because of the encouragement, love, honesty, and care you show to people here and elsewhere. Second, because I have a developmentally delayed son (he's now 15) and I am so grateful there are people like you in the world. It is a challenge (daily), but God gave certain people gifts to work with these kids and my eyes, those people are angels. God's richest blessings to you and yours!

Well, I'm not going through any treatments or anything, but I have that problem a lot. I used to think I just wasn't a morning person, but then afternoons I get yucky and then... Anyway, I hope you are feeling more awake now. Blessings

Hello Everyone, My mom went to the doc today and told them she has been having some trouble with her vision. He said it may be related to the radiation treatments to the brain. Has anyone had that before? Did it go away or is it permanent damage? Blessings

My condolences to you and your family.

Denise, I am so sorry to hear you are struggling so much. It sounds as though you have a good relationship with your younger sons. That is definitely a praise amidst all the turmoil. I have 3 boys (15, 13, and 11). I can totally appreciate what that relationship can mean. To be going through so much and feeling alone in it is awful. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Hi Beth, We're new at this too, so I'm not sure I'll be a lot of help. After my mom did her first round of chemo they did some more tests to compare it. I don't think they can tell just by seeing you, but then again, I really don't know. Someone else may be able to answer that question better than I. Blessings

I am so sorry for your loss. I don't even know what to say... My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

I hope this is ok. I didn't know where I could do a test message. I wanted to make sure my signature was working. Thanks and blessings.

Thank you all for those replies to sammy. Our family is not there yet and hope to try to beat this thing, but... your stories have touched my heart. You can see the healing process working through your words. God's richest blessings to you all...

Glad to hear he is doing better Shelly. When I stayed with my mother in the hospital she would say something and I would try to let her see that "whatever" her complaint was about it, wasn't that bad. She would tell me to stop because she'd have to work harder to find something to complain about.

I know exactly how you feel. The helplessness is first, then the "what do we do's ", then back to helplessness. At least this is how it was for me. The first thing that helped me was to know I was not alone, so please rest assured... you and your family are not alone. This board has been a major blessing in my life. Everyone here is loving and friendly. I've never been afraid to ask a question and while nobody can answer all your questions (since cancer can be so different for each person) I have been able to find the peace and support I desperately needed. Blessings to you and your family during this difficult time...

Thank you so much for your replies. I do feel a little better about it. We decided to come home. I've got a plane ticket to head back at (almost) anytime. I'm going to get my family settled here and then head back. Mom is still in the hospital (and not at ALL happy about it). Her fever ranges from 101 - 103+. They still do not have a reason for it. Thanks again and blessings to all of you.

Hello everyone, I have a question for you. I wrote a few weeks back about my mom in OH and we are in TX. We were able to make the trip for Christmas, but the day after they put mom in the hospital b/c of fever. (She has her first round of chemo and radiation last week. SCLC/with mets to the liver and all four parts of the brain.) She has been in the hospital since Friday on four different antibiotics. So far... none are working. The doctors are stumped. They have sent in an infectious disease doc and he couldn't figure it out either. Has anyone had this before or know of someone who has? My BIG dilemma: We are set to leave today to go back to TX. My husband is a pastor and has got to get back for this weekend. We're driving and needless to say, this is a looooong trip. I'm waiting for the doctor to call me later. The car is packed and we've said our goodbyes if need be. But I'm wondering... do we go? I am so lost I don't know what to do. My sister talked to the nurse at the hospital and she did say that if they can't find the reason for the fever it can kill her, b/c they can't treat it. They say there is no reason that she should still have it. ?????? Is she dying? I know that nobody can answer that for me. BUT please, if you have ever dealt with a situation like this or close to this, I desperately would like to hear the outcome and conclusion of it. Thank you all so much. I so appreciate having this board to come and ask this... In His care

Ok guys... I'm sorry, I'm still trying to figure out what all of this means. I mean, I know what it means, but... well... I guess I'm wanting some answers to questions that really just don't exist. Am I making sense? About a week ago, we found out my mom has SCLC. After further testing, they have found that it has gotten into all four sections of her brain. She goes in at the beginning of next week to figure out what they are going to do. She was supposed to start chemo Monday, but now they are saying she may not want to even try... What's the deal? Is it possible she could die before the end of the year? I'm going to call and talk to the doctor Monday to get more answers (we live quite a few states away). Is it even a possibility that she could only have weeks left? Have any of you known someone or heard of it acting that fast? I am so confused and could really use your help and thoughts. Anything would be a huge help... Blessings to you all...

Please know that I am deeply saddend by your loss. The few times I have posted he was able to add answers and support. He also made it clear that this board and he, cared and was here to help. May God's loving arms hold you close as you press through this time...

Anne, I have no answers, this adventure is just beginning for us. I do, however, want to post my support and prayers for you, your mom and your family. Take reassurance that God knows this is a difficult time. It's so hard, who can understand the heart of God or why He chooses to do what and when He does? Praying for rest, comfort, mercy and peace for you and your family...

Thank you for your help. Yesterday my mom went for the cat scan to check the rest of her body. They called yesterday afternoon to tell her they have spotted a trauma to the brain and scheduled an MRI for tomorrow. Trauma? Does that mean that it may have spread? When I hear trauma I think someone has been hit in the head.