nancy c Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 I am having a hard day. I lost my brother, Ron, 41 years old on Oct 21. He died in his sleep. He was epiletic but recently had been weaned off his meds, after taking them for 25 years??? He lived a very normal life, graduated from college and was upper management for 17 Dollar General stores in Iowa. I am so upset. I just lost Mike to LC in June, actually June 21st. Why does God take 2 very important people from me?? Ron was my backbone while Mike was ill. He was always there for me. Now, I am watching my mother want to curl up and die. I don't understand any of this. I know God is good and I love him, but this makes me ask why??? God bless,Nancy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma's kid Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Just wanted to give you a hug, Nancy. Please know you are in my prayers. Libby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 (((Nancy))) I don't understand why so much tragedy has to fall on one family. One of the many questions I have when I meet God. I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 I am so sorry you have lost another loved one. It just is not fair. I wish you strength to go forward without him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Nancy, I am soooo sorry about your brother. I can't imagine. All I can do is offer my condolences. I wish we had God's master plan so we could understand. My prayers are with you and your family for comfort, peace and strength. It's difficult to know what to say...words are so limiting. You and your mother are stronger than you think. Life will go on somehow. Need to quit writing. This is not my strong suit! God bless you Nancy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jyoung20 Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Nancy, I am so sorry for your losses. It makes me hurt for you and your family. I will pray for you and your family to find a way to handle everything your dealing with. GOD BLESS!! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Nancy, I am so sorry you have to face so much loss in so little time. Your question has no answer in this lifetime. I am glad your brother was here long enough to support you with your husband's illness. I pray you peace. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Nancy We love you, friend. All I can offer you right now is that I am trusting our God's reliability. He IS love He Is our shepard. He will lift you up. We are so very sorry for all your pain. This is just so much for you. Please know that we care and that we have you firmly in prayer. Lots of love and prayers. brat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall54 Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Dear Nancy, If we ever knew the answers you're husband and our brothers know now we wouldnt have any questions. I have always said when someone passes that now they know all the answers we all wonder about. I have faith that God has an ultimate plan and I just have to trust him. I know when I was 28 and became a widow with 2 young sons it was the first time I questioned God. I just could not understand why God would take a man of 29 and the father of 2 young sons away. Our answers are in Heaven Nancy. When we get there and meet our loved ones and sit at the side of God we will have all our questions answered, until then we just need Faith. God Bless you Sweetie, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancy c Posted November 2, 2005 Author Share Posted November 2, 2005 Thanks to all of you for your support. Everyone here has enough of their own baggage to handle, and me adding burden doesn't help. Thanks for the positive thoughts. I wish all of you love and peace.Thanks, God bless,Nancy C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berisa Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Nancy, I am so sorry of hearing that. I am speechless and my prayers are with you. Take care, my friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 Nancy, I am so very sorry that you are faced with so much sorrow in your life right now. Losing both your husband and brother in such a short time frame is more than anyone should be able to handle. My heart breaks for your mother. I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child. Nancy, I don't have the answers and am still unable to understand why God works in the way He does. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying that you will be able to make some sense of all this tragedy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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