jean44 Posted October 10, 2007 Share Posted October 10, 2007 Four years ago on Oct. 14th I lost my Dad to lung cancer. As I sit and type this the tears are streaming down my face because I still miss my Dad and am still grieving his loss. I know there is no time limit on grief however, I did believe that after four years it wouldn't "hurt" as bad. But, it does. I miss him and hate what lung cancer did to him. I will go to the cemetary, pay my respects, and try to deal with the heartache and loss the best I can. So heres to my Dad......I wish you were still here with me, I love you, and miss you everyday. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted October 10, 2007 Share Posted October 10, 2007 Here's to your dad! I wish he was there with you too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DanaBrooke Posted October 10, 2007 Share Posted October 10, 2007 I feel your pain! Sorry you have to deal with this! LC SUCKS!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamataca Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 You guys must have really shared a special love to feel it so acutely four years later. I'm really sorry that you are feeling so much pain. Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilyjohn Posted October 11, 2007 Share Posted October 11, 2007 It has been almost 5 years sense I lost Johnny and a little over a year and a half sense my ex husband died. It still hurts every day. Heck I lost my mom 22 years ago and a brother 22 another one 29 and still another one 33 years ago then my dad 13 years ago. It still hurts every day. I still feel the loss of each of them. It doesn't go away we just kind of get used to the feelings. Then one day someone will say something or a song will come on the radio and the tears start. The people in our lives are a part of us. When they leave this Earth they take a part of us with them and we grieve for that part of ourselves as well. We just have to remember that they also left a large part of them here with us and nothing can ever take that away from us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jean44 Posted October 12, 2007 Author Share Posted October 12, 2007 Thanks to those of you who responded to my post. Your kind words were appreciated. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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