When I was diagnosed with prostate cancer 9 years ago, I got a new computer and went on-line to learn as much as I could. I learned that not all "info" is good info and had to learn to differentiate. Now I still give info and support for prostate cancer, but am giving more than receiving.
When Lucie was diagnosed two years ago with NSCLC, Stage IV (bone mets), I again went on-line to learn what I could and get support. Lucie preferred not to go on-line, as it would be hard for her to screen info without it upsetting her and she was not able at that time to give support. She preferred that I go on-line, get the info and support, screen it for her, and then relay it to her. She still prefers it that way, and that is okay with me. She has, however, reached out to others locally who have LC.
I agree that it depends on the individual and how one handles stress and info. Good luck. Don