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Hi Kamoto, he always tried to help everyone he was a one off, I miss him so so much but what a joy to have had him in my life for 52 years, he will never be forgotten and you all meant a great deal to him and definitely helped him thro his journey, thanks for your kind words and acknowledgment and good luck in your own journey best wishes Isla xx
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Hi everyone, it’s with a heavy heart that we laid Jus to rest today, it was an incredible turn out with people standing outside as the crematorium was full, he would have been so chuffed to see so many people there. He was driven on his last journey along a 5 mile dual carriageway on the back off a turquoise Chevy pickup and wearing a beautiful white suit like Elvis wore when he sang if I could dream, omg he would be so pleased as that was his last wish. I’m gonna miss him so so much (I already do) he was the light of my life, I will never get over this but as I said on my flowers this is not goodbye Jus it’s just till we meet again, thanks for all your kind words of support it meant a great deal to me, I’ll sign off now but maybe I’ll check in on you all to see how your doin I think he would have wanted me to do that so bye for now xx love Izzy xx
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Hi Lily, thanks for your kind thoughts, this is the hardest thing ever, I cry every day, not hearing his voice or being able to touch him is heartbreaking 💔 I know this is my life from now on but I’m broken, his funeral is next Wednesday which I’m dreading, he always spoke so fondly of you to me and I know the forum was a great help to him, thanks again for your support and everyone on the forum I feel it helps me too, lots of love Isla xxx
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Hi, yeah he was a joy for us as well, he was definitely a one off, funny, caring loyal and loving, this gaping hole will never be filled. I've had 52 wonderful years of loving him and will continue to till we meet up again. We are just gonna have to live in this different world now without him in it, which will be so so tough, but the memories we have will never fade or die but this pain will last forever too, thanks again all xxx love Izzy xxx
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Thank you everyone for those lovely messages, just doesn't seem real, he was such a huge force in this world and in our lives that it'll take a lifetime to get over this, he was a one off with his wicked sense of humour and his incredible story telling that my life will never be the same again, thanks again for your support xxx love Izzy xxx
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Hi everyone, it's with great sadness that I have to tell you Jus passed away this morning, we are all completely heartbroken, he fought so hard to beat this evil disease to no avail, thank you all for the support you've given him and me over the last 21 months and I hope you all continue to fight on and beat this devastating disease, he would be saying the same thing to you all don't ever give up , much love and thanks again xxx Izzy (and Jus) xxx
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Hi again, no jus is at home but in a hospital bed, he can't do anything much for himself as he's confined to bed. I gave him your messages and he said it was ok for me to talk to you all, he's really quite poorly and we are all struggling, but he's still with us thank god, I will keep you updated lots of love Izzy and Jus xxx
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33 minutes ago, LilyMir said:
@Justin1970 @Izzy Our thoughts are with you, hope things are OK.
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My sentiments exactly Lou and I still believe it can, I'm not about to give up on you Jus not ever ! It is not the end of the line and this does not mean your going anywhere any time soon, it just means they can't do anything else but if you get to feeling stronger things could change and you might then be able to have more chemo, never say never and don't let this latest hurdle make you give up, I'm not ever going to xxxxx love you sweetheart xxxx Mum xxxxxx
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Well there's your answer Jus xx your not about to die, your knackered because your body has been through masses of trauma and you had a huge seizure which you were lucky to survive but you did !! Your body now needs to relax that's how you repair, you've not slept for such a long time you have a lot of catching up to do, you should stop googling everything cause you then only see the bad bits, once you gain some strength back you'll start to feel better but not with a negative attitude, you have to have the will to live, I know you've got it in you so let's see it, I'm convinced you can do this so let's show em eh ! Xxxx love you so so much Jus xxxxx Mum xxxx
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Thanks Lou, means a lot to all of us xx
- Tom Galli, LouT and Justin1970
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Just a quick message to thank you all soo much for the love and support you are giving to Jus, he so needs it at the moment cause things are really tough for him, but he's a fighter as we all are too and we're not about to let him go, so thanks again it means the world to him as it does to me, it's tough being a mum and seeing you child in so much pain but I'm tough too so this cancers got a fight on its hands, thanks again and lots of love and strength back to you all xx Isla xxx
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Jus !! Not a chance that your going anywhere I won't allow it, your tough and your a fighter, we will never give up, where there's life there's hope, your not down n out yet and your not gonna be, they get stuff wrong all the time and they have this time !! You'll see it's a rough patch but one we can come through, come on let's show em what we're made of and kick this cancer into outer space xx I love you so very very much and I'm not prepared to lose you any time soon xxx If others can do it so can we xxx Love you sweetheart always xxxxxxx Mum xxxxxxx
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Everything xd for a good result Jus you so deserve it, I know it's been a tough journey but here's to a better year and future, if anyone can beat this you can, I love you so very much and hate you being so sad and hurting like I know you do, bring on the summer, Love you xx Mum xx
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Wow !! At last the good news that you so deserve Jus, it's been a tough 18 months without a lot of respite, you've been incredible in your unwavering response to all the gruelling treatments they've put you through but you've kept going throughout, we are all so very proud of you and your bravery and courage, time now for a well deserved break and a bit of you time, also thanks to all of you on this incredible forum for all your love and support you've shown my wonderful son it means so very very much to us all as this is a very lonely journey for him even tho we are all here around him, and Jus I Love you so so much and you've got this xxxx all my love xxxx Mum xxxx
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I know this is so tough for you Jus and my heart breaks for you but hang in there we're due a break !! Don't know how your coping with all this I'm so proud of you, It's so hard to know what to say cause nothing will make you feel any better, life can be so cruel, but your one tough cookie and If anyone can do this you can xxx love you very much xx Mum xxx
- LilyMir, LouT and Justin1970
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Hi everyone, I just wanted to thank you all for the wonderful support you give my son. Jus has had a pretty rough time of late and certainly didn't need the added stress from people who were supposed to be family (well by marriage) as he needs all his strength to fight this evil disease. Things are better now and I feel he is getting stronger and back to the man we all know and love. Your help and support has been invaluable to him and me, you truly are a family to us and once again thanks, I know it means a great deal to him to have people he can confide in and that fully understand what he's going thro and how he's feeling, I hope you are all doing well and keeping positive Take care and keep fighting Love and best wishes Isla xxx
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Congratulations Tom, enjoy 😊 xx Isla
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I know how tough this is for you Jus but your getting there, rough n smooth is the road, just talk yourself thro those horrible feelings always here n ready to listen, it will get better as you go further down this road with all of us along side of you, don't worry about other people just concentrate on yourself and getting better, this will work for you !!!! Love you sonzie xxxx mum xxxx
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Right Jus !! That's not going to happen ! We all give you joy and love and you give it back to us , this will work for you and you just need to believe in that as we all do ( including Bonnie) Your bound to feel like it's a waste of time cause you've been knocked back, but life is never a waste of time and I'm not about to let you give up on it !! It's a hurdle I'm convinced you can jump, just find that heart and faith I know you have xx Love you so very much and I'm not about to let you give up xxxx Love you sweetheart always xxx mum xxx
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How lovely Mark, I had family in Bristol we are about an hour away from there, your wife or you can always private message me if you want to. You can do this Mark and tell your wife she might feel lonely at times but she's never alone, always here for a chat if she needs it, take care nice to talk to you , hang in there, Isla x
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Hi Mark, I'm Justin's mum. Sorry to hear your news, I know you must be devastated but there is always hope, I know how your wife is feeling as she will feel there is nothing that she can do. It's so tough seeing someone you love going through such pain and the feeling of helplessness is overwhelming. As a mum I truly do know how she feels so if she ever needs a shoulder or someone to talk to I would be more than happy to listen. Jus has been incredible and gone through some gruelling treatment but 18 months on he's still here and still fighting. Let your wife know she doesn't have to do this on her own we are a family on this forum and always here to listen and support, take care Isla x
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Hi Lou, lovely to hear from you, hope your doin ok, Jus always had so much to say about you I feel I know you, it’s still so very raw and painful and hard to believe it will ever feel any better. Having family problems now too, like to believe it’s the grief but it’s not, feel I’ve lost a lot more family now but as long as they are ok it will do me, take care and keep strong and live that life your so so lucky to have, love and hugs Isla xx