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Izzy

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  1. Thanks Catlady for your positivity it means a great deal. Jus is feeling pretty despondent at the moment as nothing seems to be working, I've said the same thing they wouldn't waste funds if they didn't think there was a good chance it would work, it's so hard for him and he worries so much about everyone else, I feel so helpless as all I can do is be here to support him and as a mum you just want to make it better. I have faith that this will be the one that will work for him, thanks for your support it's much appreciated, Take care, Isla 

  2. Well done Jus for today I know how worried you were, very very proud of you it never ceases to amaze me how brave you are putting yourself thro all this, it must be so tough for you and I know your doing this for all of us just wish I could help you like I did when you were little x breaks my heart that you have to go thro all this I just wish it was me, just remember how important you are to us all and how much we all love you, you'll get there of that I'm sure, and remember there's no love like a mothers xxxx love you sweetheart xxx all my love xxx mum xxx 

  3. Im devastated at Jus's news today, he's been fighting so hard and it's like a kick in the teeth. We are a strong family and will fight this together. Your support is most appreciated as we need all the help and support we can get at this time in our lives. He's a strong lad and if anyone can fight this he can. Where there's life there's hope so all the love ❤️ in the world is with you Jus cause we love you so very very much, it's gonna be a rough ride but we'll make it xx I love you to the moon and back son xx all my love mum xxxx

  4. Jus, I know this is tough for you and you don't deserve all this added hassle and stress with your in-laws, they are not worth wasting your breath on, we have much more to focus on in life than those two losers so don't give them another thought. It's so hard waiting for the results all the time but we can deal with this as a family xxx You are all I worry and care about and we will win this battle together, hang in there we've got this xxx love you very very much xx love mum xxx 

  5. Hi Kristen, Sorry to hear your news, my son is Justin who was diagnosed with NSCLC in 2021. He was 51. This is so scary and I know you will be struggling (I still am). We all know this is no easy disease to get your head around but you will now be able to process things as you have a diagnosis. Seeing someone you love go through this is heartbreaking but there really are lots of positives, this forum being one of them. It has helped me immensely and I know Jus has found it really helpful. Once you get a plan in place and  treatment starts it will be a bit easier as your doing something. Please feel free to contact me any time you need a shoulder it's sometimes helpful to know someone is in the same boat as you, keep positive and stay in touch, it really does help to talk, xx love Isla xx

  6. Jus !!!! Of course it will be a nice Christmas you've got a great family that will make sure it is, the future is much better than it was last year so let's enjoy it, your stronger now and yeah you've had a little setback but at least it's a normal thing not a new one x come on show us that spirit we know you have x can't do this on our own xxx love you very very much sweetheart xxxx Mum xxxx 

  7. Hi lovingdaughter 1990 I'm Justin's mum, I know exactly how your feeling. Jus was diagnosed  with lung cancer 16 months ago at the age of 50 and It's been the scariest and sadist time of my entire life. You are never on your own cause you have this incredible forum to help you, they've certainly helped me, He is doing amazing and having the strength and support from his family is immeasurable. Love is an incredible weapon and it may not seem like it right now but you will get through this, if you ever need a chat I'm always available, it sometimes helps to have someone in the same boat as you, keep strong and positive cause your dads gonna need you, take care and sending lots of love and support Isla xx

  8. Hi Ale, I'm Justin's mum. I know I can never know exactly how you feel but I can know the sadness you must be feeling and I'm sure desperation. Jus has been there and still is to a certain extent because it can never leave you but I say to him you are living with cancer not dying from it. Every day is a fight but also a bonus that your still here. They are finding out so much more about this evil disease and the treatments are improving every day. Hang in there and keep talking to these lovely people on this forum as they really do help each other. Jus is an amazing person and proved he is stronger than he thought he was, I hope you start to feel better soon and remember your never alone x lots of love Isla xx

  9. Hi all, just the news we were hoping for and needed. Jus has been incredible thro this massive battle and we are so very very proud of him. I know it's been really tough Jus and you would have wanted to give up, and I know we've pushed you to your limit , but you've never given up and it's paying off, keep up this brilliant attitude you have as it not only helps you and us but everyone on this site, you are an inspiration and we love you very much and here's to a better future xxx love you sonzie xx mum xxxx

  10. What can I say !!! What an incredible man you are. You've put yourself through such a lot for your family ( and Bonnie ) We are so very proud of how far you've come and the resilience you've shown.  You are an example to us all. This journey must be so hard for you as it is for us too, but your one strong man, so proud to call you my son x If anyone can beat this evil disease you can, we are so humbled by your strength and we love you sooo very much. Onwards and upwards Jus we are with you all the way x xxxxx All my love xx your Mum xxxx 

  11. Thanks for your positive response Lily he certainly needs it at the moment, it’s a very scary time for him so he needs all the support we can give him, I know your replies mean a lot to him and hopefully he will come to the right decision, thanks again for your support, lots of love Isla ( Justin’s mum ) xxx

  12. Jus, Where theres life there’s always hope xxx Come on we can do this x of course your worried but they wouldn’t have said surgery if they weren’t going to do it x it really is a better option as too much gamma has side effects and they know what’s best for you x I know it’s tough but you will come through this and be better xxxx This is gonna be good news for you, they will get rid of that shi_ that’s been causing you so much trouble and life will be good again , love you so very much and look forward to a much brighter future for you and all of us xxxx hang in there sweetheart xxxxx loads a love xx mum xxx 

  13. Of course they will treat you Jus, it’s not a large lesion and they don’t give up on people and neither do we xx It’s the waiting that’s the hardest, once they start treatment you will feel better x everything is so unfair but we will beat this xx I love you very much and normal service will be resumed  soon xx All your friends on this site are behind you and I’m so impressed you talk to them about this evil disease and your thoughts x I’m also impressed how you are involved in their problems as well as dealing with your own x one step at a time and we’ll get there xx very proud of you and love you to the moon n back xxx all my love Mum xxx 

  14. Thanks Lily, I know that you know how hard this fight is but I can’t have him giving up on himself. He needs all your support as well and I know it makes a difference. Thanks for your response hope you getting on ok, I do follow all the stories on here and wish you all so much luck and love. Take care, lots of love Isla xxx

  15. We are in this together Jus and we will get thro it together xxxx your a fighter even if it doesn’t feel like it at the moment xx the other option doesn’t bear thinking about, I’m not about to give up on you, we’re all stronger than you think and need you to be as well xx come on we can do this xxx mum xxxx

  16. This is so heartbreaking for you and all of us Jus xx but they will fix you I’m sure  of that, it’s all such a lot for you to comprehend and cope with, we are all so very proud of you for how far you’ve come and here for you always, but we will never know the actual fear your feeling xx life can be so cruel especially to someone who does nor deserve it, we will get thro this together and life will soon be better for you and us. Stay positive, new things are being found every day for this evil disease. I love you soooo much as do all your family,  and as your mum it’s so difficult seeing you hurting so much. We will get there and life will be brighter soon I’m sure. We have to have faith or we have nothing, hang in there sweetheart, I love you very very much xxxx all my love Mum xxxxx 

  17. 16 hours ago, Justin1970 said:

    Hi

    you have to try and keep fighting this I know it's difficult I feel the same way as you at the moment, I've completely had enough of this journey but if you offered help then we should take it, please don't give up,all the best

    Take care Justin 

    Absolutely right son xx we must never give up no matter how hard it is, where there’s life there’s hope, I know it must be really difficult but your not alone even if it feels like it, hang in there all of you we’re all fighting with you xxxxx

  18. Hi all, Bin a while since I’ve posted but it’s been a waiting game for Jus’s results, and what a great result it is !!!! No spread , another reduction and is marked as stable. Such a relief he’s going in the right direction and no one deserves it more than him, it’s such a tough terrible journey for you all and my heart breaks for you, but hang in there and stay strong.  Jus, I love you so very much and am exceedingly proud of you for the way you’ve coped with all this and if anyone can kick this you can. Keep up the positivity everyone and show em who’s boss. All the very best to you all and lots of love, best wishes Isla xxx

  19. Well I’m so proud of you Jus for sharing your journey and helping others to maybe get an insight of what is to come x Your an inspiration and we love you very much for it, we wish Mickey all the love in the journey to come, and there is light at the end of these dark tunnels we’ve all gone thro, faith plays a huge part in recovery ❤️🩹 and just to hear you talk about what you’ve been thro brings tears to my eyes, so glad you can share your story x love you sweetheart xxxx

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