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I have to agree. While I don't have the years under my belt that you have, I beleive that the story of your life is already written. All you have to do is walk it and enjoy it. The best that you can. You have given us so much, Barb. Don't ever think that you "lost" it. You are so much a part of our walk. I can't even express how much you mean to us. Keep your head high, do what you need to do, and remember, we are here for you. Hugs, Liz

There's a big, happy, smile here in Saint Pete. I am so happy for all of you. And it takes about 2 weeks till big sister wants to return the baby. Hugs, Liz

Woooooooohhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!! Happy dance!!!

I've glanced ( too much stuff there ) through the web site and have seen more chicken soup books then I can count. Why not one for lung cancer. There are, unfortantly, way too many people diagnoiused each year. Far more then the "ones that love a cat that has a dog that rides a surf board". I say go for it. We can all put in a story and donate any proceedes to research. We do have a lot to share with the world. Randy, you are one of our brightest stars here. I would be honored for you to lead this crusade. As far as how to proceede? Just do it!! I'm going to start planning my story. Hugs, Liz

I am so proud of you. It's been amazing to watch you grow on this web site. You are such a fine, compassionate man and I wish you all the best in your life. Keep diligent and make a differnce. Hugs, Liz

Aaron, Can I tell them?? Please?? I am so happy for you. Hugs, Liz

Hi Nova, Did taking the patch off work? It did when I took mine off. I hope it helps him. Hugs, Liz

Raney, It sounds wonderful. I'm sure you did a great job speaking. I would have been so scared. I've never been a public speaker sort. Any chance of seeing some pictures? Hugs, Liz

Dear Lilly, I know exactly what you mean. In the beggining, which wasn't so long ago, I could only live 3 months at a time. The first 3, I was just plain scared, the 2nd three blew by. Then I started the 3rd three. And recently relaized that this is stupid. I have just as much right to step off a curb and get hit by a bus tomorrow, as everyone else in the world. And I'm certainly not going to live my life betting on that happening. So I'm moving on. Planning my life like I did before I was DX. Because plan's can change, they always do, but we'll never get the time back we are wasting,waiting for someone to tell us we're "Cured". Live for the day, plan for the future and create memories with your loved ones. Wear that special dress, burn that special candle and use your good perfume. There is no day more special then this one. Hugs, Liz

So proud!!!!

Hi Nova, I'm sure it's very scary to you and Harry when this stuff happens. I know My brain doesn't work the same for me anymore. I have times like you've spoken of where I'll "know" something but for the life of me, I can't remember what, how, who where, why, when (pick one or two) I just never really let it get to me. I figured it is just my "new" life. The effects of the chemo, anasteshia, radiation, etc. Though I've never had anything that could be dangerous, like forget who I am or who people are. Just their names. Or where I'm at. But sometimes I forget where I'm going. As far as the medicine goes, who can keep track. At one point I had a list 3 or 4 inches long, typed. My mom kept it up for me and I carried a copy in my wallet. I would print a copy before doctors appt. so I could give it to them. I also have a list of doctors, with addresses and phone numbers. Right now I have 9 doctors and I'm down to 3 meds. I can remember them, but I still forget the doctors names. Lets' just hope he doesn't forget how to mow the lawn. Love, Liz

Play the piano.

Dear Terri and Bill, The days do seem to get longer as we wait for our results. I wish I had known earlier. Not that it would make a whole lot of difference. I pray for Bill everyday. I am another that believe that the book is already written and we are just walking the path now. No one knows where we are going or when. But trust the Lord, that the journey will be fulfilling and the homecoming spectatular. I am just starting my walk with God and I see miracles everyday in my life. Nothing to make the front pages of the newspaper, but miracles to me all the same. While I also would like to hear the word "miracle" on result's day, I don't believe it's in the medical dictionary. But I consider everyday I can walk in his light a miracle. I will continue to pray for you both. I will pray for strength, courage, healing and comfort. I will also be praying for wisdom and guaidance for his doctors to do everything they can for him. Hugs, Liz

"Believe in miracles" Serenity Prayer

Yeah!! I'm so glad the prayers worked. Now just get him and the boy fishing. Thst picture is pretty awesome. It put your pain in perpective. And can understand why it takes so long to heal. Hugs and more prayers, to regain strength and health and words. Liz

Who's cooking?

Hi Nova, Gosh, I was hoping Harry was home by now. I really enjoyed visiting him on Tuesday and I'm sorry I missed you. I remember when I was in the hospital for 9 days. It seemed I got worse while I was there. But I got better real quick when I got out. So I hope the same happens to Harry when he gets home. Just to be back on familuar ground. With your own stuff, in your own bed. I'm saying an extra special prayer today. Hugs to both of you, Liz

Hi Jane, I think it is the patch. They put me on 50 mg on November 21st when I left the hospital. I was nauseated and vomiting from the chemo at the time, so I really didn't contect the two. I finished chemo on December 3rd. And continued to vomit. Somedays more then others. December 19th, they upped the dose to 75mg. The vomiting got worse. Someday more then others. I finally figured it out. First day on was worse, started getting better by sencond, third was doing well. Then I changed the patch. And within 2 hours was vomiting again. I took it off January 8th and have not vomited since. I just dealt with the pain because I couldn't swallow meds at the time. Maybe they can give her something different? I hope she feels better soon. Hugs, Liz

Your still going strong!! Day 8!!

I see God's work around me everyday and give thanks. Blessed am I to be so unworthy, yet allowed to praise his name.

Day 6!!!! Hurray!!!! Keep on praying. God can help you tremendously with this. He did with me. BreatheDEEP When I was a smoker, all I saw were non smokers. I was so outnumbered. Now, all I see are smokers. And it stinks. I got a shirt out this weekend and it stilled smelled like smoke. And I quit 8 months ago. Hugs, Liz

Day four!!! Happy dance!!!

I am so proud of you. The first 3 days are the hardest. Now you have beat the physical addiction. The physcological is tough too. Just go one minute at a time. Breathe Deep. Watch that the eating doesn't get out of control. A lot of people use weight gain as an excuse to start again. Don't do "just one", it doesn't work. Just talk yourself out of each craving, one at a time. And know that I will be checking on you all the time. You can do it Mitchell. I know you can!! Hugs, Liz

Hi Priscilla, It sounds like this just happened. Welcome to the best LC site around. You will find tons of support and information here. First off, tell your boss about us. We have a lot of stage 4 here and there is reason to hope. Treatment can be a wonderful thing. Take a look around, read our profiles and our stories, then post your own to let us know what is happening. Chances are someone here has gone through what ever she's facing. As far as the smoking, that is a personal choice. I quit a week after diagnois. Some do quit right away, for some it takes longer. Hopefully she'll put on her fighting gloves and do what it takes to fight this to the fullest. And that will include stopping smoking. Please let us know how it's going. As for making her comfortable, how is she feeling? I wasn't sick when I was DX'd. The best thing I think you can do for her is research. The internet can be an ugly place for someone newly DX'd. Sort through the good, the bad and the ugly. She needs to hear about the good right now. It took me a good month before I wanted to hear about the ugly. Encourage her, cheer for her, pray with her. Follow her lead. Hugs, Liz

Dear Nova, I'm so sorry to hear this about Harry. I was hoping he was getting better. I'll tell ya, the chemo/radiation cocktail is he** on the body. I'm glad he's at a great hospital. They will take care of him. If he's up for company, I'd love to stop by tomorrow or Sunday to see him. I'll call you later. In the meantime, prayers are going up for Harry and the doctors to get this under control. Hugs, Liz