Hi Kelly
Nice to meet you and welcome. Reading your post reminded me so much of my family and what we are going thru. My Mum was diagnosed in August of last year, unfortunately her stage at diagnosis was a Stage IV. She has a tumour in her left upper lobe, positive mediastinal lymph nodes and some bone secondaries as well. My family are also very close and have been a great support to each other, and we also refuse to believe the prognosis of incurable. Really, how do they know that? They don't, so we don't have to accept it. The hurt your feel being scared about your children not remembering your Dad I can also relate to, as I am trying to get pregnant myself at the moment (I have no children) and I am devastated at the thought my children would never meet my Mum. I try not to think about that too much. I also relate to what you say about how life seems so different since the diagnosis, and I totally agree. I do so wish that I could wake up one morning and not have to think about the fact that my Mum has cancer. That would be wonderful. I have recommended to other people to research "Ian Gawler" on the internet.. Ian was given about two weeks to live by doctors and is alive 27 years later. He tried multitudes of different therapies and there is alot to be learned from him I believe. I hope you can look it up and find some information that may help your Dad.
I will be thinking of you, your Dad and your family and hoping for some good news on the next scan.
Jana
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