tatlyn Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 Dad's first chemo treatment is set for February 1st. I wish it was sooner. The mass in his lung was found on November 23rd and it was on the 21st of December that the surgeon gave him the, "months only to live" speech. To me the time from first diagnoses to the first chemo seems long...oncologist seems to think not. Dad hasn't been feeling well...says he's nauseous and just feels crappy. He had a very strange episode a few nights ago where he was throwing up and dizzy...laid down on the couch afterwards and the next thing he knew it was 24 hours later!!! I didn't find out about this until after the fact. He's not thrown up again since but says his stomach still feels upset. He's not one that you can easily fuss over and he doesn't want to do anything about this right now. He says he will wait until he sees the oncologist on the 1st to mention this, if he still feels unwell then. I'm just feeling like I don't know what to do and wonder if this is the cancer, or maybe worry and lack of sleep catching up with him. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. Thanks everyone for listening. God Bless, Lynda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 Have you asked about moving up the chemo date? It may be possible, if he feels well enough to start earlier. Our center is pretty flexible that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dads girl Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 The first is next wednesday- so it is only a week away. My dad was diagnosed around the 4th of july and his first chemo was mid august. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 yikes. that sleeping episode sounds scary. you can ask to move it up, though I suspect, at this point, they may tell you a week is the best they can do. try not to worry about that part of it, just show up for your dad and DISREGARD the "months to live" baloney. no one knows what your dad's road with this will be, so keep hope!! xoxo amie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamataca Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 Listen to Bunny...she's a wise gal! We all have been through the "sticker shock" of hearing time estimates. They are just numbers, and your Dad isn't. I can imagine how worried you are. Please take care of yourself while you are taking care of him, OK? Keep us posted. Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trishnmiller Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 The chemo delay does seems odd. What is their reasoning? Don't worry about the prognosis just the diagnosis. Everyone is different. Ya know your Dad may have had a stomach flu..really going around here. I have to remind myself that cancer patients get normal illnesses too. Prayers, Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tatlyn Posted January 24, 2006 Author Share Posted January 24, 2006 Ya know your Dad may have had a stomach flu Thanks Trish...I needed to hear that. I feel so dumb and I bet you're right. Pre lung cancer, that is the first thing I would have thought of. Dad hasn't thrown up again since Saturday and he certainly had lots of rest when he was sleeping beauty...I'm sure he was thinking the worst as I was...we need to stop that. The delay in chemo is apparently because the 1st of February is the soonest they have a spot for him. He is anxious to get going with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Irisheyes Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 Lynda, Once my dad started radiation and chemo his team really stressed how important it was that he let them know about everything, fever, constipation, you name it. After hearing it a few times he actually started to go along with it. My dad always took the "lets give it a few days" approach before, being a stubborn irishman is a hard habit to break. We were given the statistics speech in the first few weeks which I quickly learned from everyone here to ignore. Best piece of advice I ever received! I'm glad your dad seems to be feeling better and you guys will be in my prayers as he starts his treatment next week. Shannon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myrnalu Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 you mentioned the surgeon,is your dad a candidate for surgery? My mass was found late august.went for a zillion tests first,almost had surgery but they found lymph nodes with cancer so surgery was stopped.started chemo and radiation in nov. praying for you and your dad Marie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 I wish him good luck with the Chemo. It will be here before you know it. I am glad he is feeling better since his long rest. Keep us posted. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joanie55 Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 The beginning is so hard with all the waiting for results, treatment, etc. You'll be started before you know it now and then you'll get into a routine and believe me start to feel better. I know once I started my chemo, mentally I felt better because I was doing something to fight! Wishing your dad and you the very best. Joan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tatlyn Posted January 24, 2006 Author Share Posted January 24, 2006 Thanks everyone!! My Dad is feeling much better today and so am I. I will try to think more rationally next time because I'm almost sure now that it was just a flu as Trish said. you mentioned the surgeon,is your dad a candidate for surgery? Marie, no...at least not now. My Dad was referred to a thoracic surgeon when the mass was discovered in the ER by x-ray. The surgeon was the one who scheduled all the subsequent tests and then delivered the diagnoses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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