I thank God for the many blessings that I have been given and I give my pain over to him and coontinually pray for peace. It works!!!
To go along with that:
I sometimes take a long bath with a lot of bubbles and a glass of red wine.
(Lock the door, light the candles and turn on the mood music and let calgon take me away)
Watch the movie "Superstar"--It can always make me laugh.
Play toys and games with my little boy.
WOW--the list goes on