Sharon,
I'll put my two cents where it is not needed.
Mike (my husband) could have been operated
in the States, where treatment are more advanced
than here in Quebec, Canada.
We had private insurance that paid for needed medical
expenses anywhere in the world, he refused.
Tried for him and for myself to make him change his mind,
impossible........stubborn Irish man.
so he had chemo and radiation never got sick
during the treatments but *no operation*
After I accepted his decision during and after
the treatments were finished,
we had the most enjoyable time of our life,
He was bedridden from October 7th am,
councious and happy and died while
sleeping on October 13th..........
His only regret, having to leave me, but
proud of the marvelous time he gave me.
He made the best decision possible for himself
and was happier with quality of time instead
of quantity of it.
Jackie