Jodi Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 My 4 sisters and I, along with our spouses, are doing the best we can, to support and assist our 70 year old mom. She just retired and after being a widow for 33 years, raising 5 daughters, she gets slammed with this....everyone here can identify, I'm sure, with these emotions....we switched oncologists, recently and are hopeful for a chemo/radiation concurrent treatment. Getting a second opinion, about the second lung (if it is truly a mets) and hoping for some optimism. Taking one day at a time. Thank you all, for being so courageous and giving me hope. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 My prayers are with you and for you and your mother. I pray that the second opinion will provide the treatment plan that you want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 Welcome Jodi, hope we can be of help. Donna G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 Welcome Jodi and sorry to hear about your mom. Glad you found us. This is the best place for support, caring and sharing. Stay positive and focused. Research as much as you can. Never/ever give up. Stay with us. Thank you for the kind words on your PM also. Prayers for your mom and you. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted February 15, 2006 Share Posted February 15, 2006 Welcome, Jodi. Glad you are getting a second opinion. That's always a good idea when you're feeling unsure or uncomfortable about things. Some of us seek 3rd opinions too -- Keep in touch and let us know what is happening. We're here for you. gail p-m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skdgr81 Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 Hey there, I just wanted to say hello and to let you know that you are in my prayers and that you have my support as well. Sending you a big hug, Sam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 Hi Jode, Welcome here. Sorry you had to find us but as you can see we are a pilar of strength for support here, or questions you may want some answers too. And yes, we all have walked in your shoes. It is devestigating at first because the first thing you think it is a death sentence. Do not even put that in your mind as that is so wrong. Many many people here have beaten the odds. They just have to find the right treatment for her. Once there is a plan and treatment is started you all will feel much better. You certainly are doing the right thing by getting a 2nd opinion. I pray she get good results. Keep us posted, we are here for you along with all your sisters. Great family!! Stay positive as that is half the battle. NEVER give up!! Just a fast pointer, if you have questions for her Onochologist or any doctor write it down so you don't forget. Also whoever goes with your mom for her doc. visits, bring a paper and pencil and write down what she is told. If that is your little boy in your avitar, he is adorable, looks like his mom. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krmloyd Posted February 17, 2006 Share Posted February 17, 2006 Hi Jodi and welcome. I am very new here but have already found some really great advice, support and LOTS of hope! My mother is a 6+ year survivor of breast cancer and I remember how devastating it was to hear of her situation. The very best thing done for her, and us, at the time was doing lots of research and finding what we all believed were the best doctors and the best options. It sounds like this is what you are doing and I believe it will pay off for you and your family. As Maryanne said, I found everything seemed brighter once a plan was in place. Very best of wishes. I look forward to hearing good news from you soon! Blessings, Krista Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 Welcome Jodi, We are glad you found us. There are so many wonderful , caring, knowlegeable people here to help you. The more information we have on your mom , the more we can help. Every case is unique, but treatments are oftentimes the same. There seems to always be someone to offer experience or advice with most situations. Know that my prayers are with you and your family. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bethluvswill13 Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 Praying for you and your mother. Hugs,Beth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted February 18, 2006 Share Posted February 18, 2006 Hi Jodi; welcome to this site. I hope your mom finds a treatment plan that works well for her. Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted February 19, 2006 Share Posted February 19, 2006 Jodi, welcome. I too was struck by the unfairness of my mother's dx at this point in her life. keep the faith, your mom sounds like she has quite a team on her side! xoxo amie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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