volfan212 Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Hi everyone, I just thought I would introduce myself. I haven't really found any younger users, but I am 18. My dad has stage IV lung cancer and my mom is already a member on this site. I look forward to getting to know people and gaining hope from others stories! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carleen Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Welcome! Sorry, I probably don't count as one of the "younger" users, but I'm not that old. There are a few other members here around your age who have parents going through this. Hopefully they will be contacting you soon and can give you the support you need. My husband also has stage IV lung cancer, and has been at that stage since his diagnosis in March 2003. We still believe he can be cured completely and will beat this. Don't lose hope for your father either. There are people beating this disease in every stage. He can be one of them. I'm glad you joined us, but sorry that you have this need in your family. It is such a difficult road to travel, but we are here to help you if you need us. There is lots of information here, lots of support and just wonderful people who will listen to you with complete understanding and no judgement no matter what you are feeling and what you want to vent. We are here for you. Welcome! Carleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Welcome. I have a son your age. I know it's hard to have your dad sick. My middle daughter is 14 and she is also a "daddy's girl" and worries terribly about her dad. Hang in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
francesbean Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Hi volfan... I am 22. Welcome and hope you find comfort here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jodi Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Hi there, I'm thirty-something (LOL), and am also going through the same situation, with my mom....her attitude is wonderful and plans on living with cancer, not dying from it! Even with stage 4, her spirits are up and wants to beat it! So my advice would be, to just keep your dad's optimism, hope, humor, and spirits up. Along with the proper treatment, it is the best hope for a good outcome. Good luck and my prayers are with you! Jodi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Welcome Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Hi, and welcome! My grandson is your age and his grandma (my wife) has Stage IV nsclc. She has survived over 3 years so far. Our grandson is a senior at military school and plans to go to U. of Missouri next fall. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Welcome Rachel! Glad you decided to post. Be careful reading some of Frank's jokes. LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted February 26, 2006 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Welcome Rachel. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 Hi honey and welcome here. I am far from your age but want you to know that we are here for you. I know how scared you are to find out the diagnosis on your dad. We have all been through that. It will get better once your dad starts treatment. Just know that LC is not a death sentence as there are so many treatments out there. You dad just has to find the right one. There are many people on here with advance LC and they are doing well on their treatments. Keep us posted on your dad. We are always here for you to give you support and answer questions you may have. By the way, with age, comes knowledge Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted February 27, 2006 Share Posted February 27, 2006 Welcome Rachel! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 Bump Want to make sure you saw my daughter's introduction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karenl Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 Hi Rachel (Love your name, by the way - the same as my Mum's!). Welcome. Glad that your Dad is doing OK now. Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jang Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Welcome Rachel. Glad you decided to join us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bethluvswill13 Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Hi, I don't know how young is young...I think Im young at 27. My dad recently passed and Im trying to find a new life without him. Im sorry you had to find this site, but glad you did. I really feel so welcome and cared about here. I hope you stick around. I know you think age is important because your young to have your father ill, but the truth is it feels the same no matter what your age. Hugs,Beth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted March 18, 2006 Share Posted March 18, 2006 Hi Rachel, I never saw this thread, and I certainly didn't know that you were Tina's daughter until today. She just sent me a PM and told me to check out your new Avatar. I don't know what the old one looked like, but this a beautiful picture, and I'm sure it's one you hold very close to your heart or you wouldn't have posted it! I just love your mom and I pray for your family. I'm glad you joined the site, too, and hope to hear more from you in the future. How old are you, Rachel? I only have one son who is 28. He had a hard time accepting that his dad had cancer, so I know it's hard on our kids. How are you coping? I'm sure others would benefit from your thoughts and tips. All my love, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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