Sonia Owen Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 After seeing my Dad today, I felt great sadness, it was his birthday last week and we had another cake with our cup of coffee this morning.We put a candle on the top, lit it and sang Happy Birthday to him. I know he enjoyed such a simple family thing. He looks so very thin now, and can hardly walk around the room without help from Mum. She said he had been very sick yesterday.We try to take Mum out on Sundays for a break,as he wants her to go out. She would not go today as she did'nt want to leave him alone.Grant me the sernity to accept the things I can not change,courage to change the things I can to help them both during this sad journey. Sonia UK Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 I understand your words, Sonia, and offer much support. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 Prayers for strength and support for You and your Family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marym Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 Hi Sonia, I'm sorry for your situation. It's difficult to watch someone we love become weak. I suspect you Mum just needs to be with your Dad right now. Best wishes for your family. Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daggiesmom Posted January 21, 2007 Share Posted January 21, 2007 ((())) and prayers coming your way. Joanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztweb Posted January 22, 2007 Share Posted January 22, 2007 Oh Sonia, may God grant you peace in these days, and may you know renewed strength and hope. Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEA Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Sonia, It is so hard to watch our love ones suffer. Keeping you and your parents in my thoughts and prayers. Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bware21 Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Sonia, Try to get you Mum out of the house for a few minutes. It will give her the chance to talk with you and feel close to you, and it will make your Dad happy to see it. Seems trite of me to say, but my thoughts are with you during this time of great sadness. Been there, done that ... and it really sucks. On the other hand, this is a time in life that is precious because it unites the family spirit. Bill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathleen1 Posted January 23, 2007 Share Posted January 23, 2007 Sonia, I am so sorry for your situation. I am sending prayers for you, your Mum and Dad and family. I pray for courage and strenght and peace for all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baillor Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 All we can do is love,honor and pray. Do a spa day at home with your Mum. It'll be good for the both of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 Sonia, I just want you to know that I'm out here praying for you and your family. Praying things are soon better for your Dad and for strength for you and your family to help you through. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 Sonia, you all have my prayers. don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Norfolk Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 Hi Sonia These are such hard and horrible times that you are going thru and I wish there were something I could say or do that will help lighten the load. I found that making the most of the times I had left with Dad were as good as they could be and tried not to focus on what was actually happenning - easier said than done I know My thoughts and prayers are with you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barbara5452 Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 My thoughts and prayers are with you and your Mum. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flowergirlie Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Your gestures are wonderful for your dad for his birthday. It is such a gift you give your mum to take her out on Sundays. As a spouse I know how hard it is to leave when your hunny is not feeling well, even though I know it is good for me. Your mum will come around and take the opportunities for a break. Sometimes our needs change though and rather than needing a break, we need to be close and comforting for ourselves and our loved one. Hang in there! My thoughts are with you and I wish there was more I could do to help make it easier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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