jstdzy Posted July 8, 2009 Share Posted July 8, 2009 Hi All, Just wondering if I'll ever not cry on the 8th of the month? Mom's been gone since Feb. 8, 2009. I don't like being an orphan! I miss my Mama! Damn! Thanks for letting me vent. Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandraL Posted July 8, 2009 Share Posted July 8, 2009 I am sending you a big hug Dana. So sorry you are having a tough time. Sandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted July 8, 2009 Share Posted July 8, 2009 Vent away its the best thing to do to cope with the madness!!! Scream yell write , just get it all out!! Hugs and Prayers for You and the Family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patti B Posted July 8, 2009 Share Posted July 8, 2009 I am so sorry, Dana. Sending you a huge hug. Remember, your mom will always be by your side. ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((DANA)))))))))))))))))))))))) Patti B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caren Posted July 8, 2009 Share Posted July 8, 2009 (((HUGS))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 You will one day have an 8th where you don't cry. I can't say when it happens...but my mom passed on the 5th of October, I can tell you not an hour gores by where I don't miss her, but 3 days ago, the fact that it was a 5th didn't strike me as significant as a "5th". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jstdzy Posted July 9, 2009 Author Share Posted July 9, 2009 Thanks guys! I just went to Michael's and bought some really pretty silk flowers and took them to her grave last night after work. I just let myself cry. She deserves tears. She was an awesome woman. Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted July 9, 2009 Share Posted July 9, 2009 I'll bet your Mamma is looking down and smiling at those pretty flowers. I wish for you that you could close your eyes and feel her stroking your hair. Judy in Key West Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted July 11, 2009 Share Posted July 11, 2009 (((Dana))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jstdzy Posted July 11, 2009 Author Share Posted July 11, 2009 Thank you. Something funny happened this morning. I was sleeping and a noise in the kitchen woke me up. I got up and went in to the kitchen and Mom was there. I went up and hugged her and said, "You're here, you're really here". She put her arm around me and patted my head and said, "Yes I'm really here, where else would I be". Then the puppy woke me up. Stupid dog That was the first time I've dreamed about Mom. Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted July 11, 2009 Share Posted July 11, 2009 sad but a good sad!!! Glad you had a dream Dana! It helps us !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted July 15, 2009 Share Posted July 15, 2009 Hi Dana, you were lucky that she communicated with you through your dreams. Souls can do that if needed and you needed her for all the grief you are going through. She is letting you know that she is fine and loves you and is by your sid Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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