Yep, cancer is the pits. How do we caregivers get through it? Well, the patient has to battle for his/her life and they need caregivers who can help them fight the disease and the system. So, we have to be strong and positive, and encouraging and cajoling. To do this, we have to take care of ourselves both physically and emotionally, as well as spiritually. Tall order -- but it is the order of the day. With the help of your spiritual source and your friends, you can persevere. And it is worth it. Don