After a few weeks of lurking in this wonderful site, I've finally gathered the courage to introduced myself.
I'm a 48-yr. old wife and mother of a wonderful 12-yr. old daughter. Checked myself into the ER on 8/15/05, and 4 days and a battery of tests and procedures later, was diagnosed with Stage IIIB NSCLC (adeno with squamous features).
I began chemo late Aug. and radiation late Sept. (1xdayx25) and went in for a mediastinoscopy on 11/23/05. Unfortunately, hilar region lymph node tested positive for cancer and plans for pneumonectomy were scrapped. Back to chemo (last (hopefully) session scheduled for 2/3/05 and radiation (1xdayx10 - maximum exposure) and PET scan on 2/17/05 for restaging.
IF PET is clear, will begin Tarceva; if not, but tumor still responding, back to Taxotere (yuck).
I've been fortunate in that I have not suffered any debilitating side-effects, just the usual but tolerable fatigue, hair loss, acid reflux, etc. My daughter's schedule remains unchanged, and I continue working full-time (thank goodness for humane employers).
Worst part is having to give control over to the doctors and not knowing what my status will be at any given point in the future. Trying to take it one day at a time, but I've got the patience of a toddler and that part is difficult.
Looking forward to sharing insights with all you wonderful and compassionate people and wishing the best for everyone.
Trish