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You know what Missy...sometimes I have those melt down moments or days I don't feel like I'm living up to my expectations and I don't have any of the good excuses that you do. I am not pregnant, I have not lost either of my parents yet, etc. I can't say for certain but you seem like a pretty good mom, and looks like you were an awesome daughter and I would bet you do pretty well in the wife category as well. I agree with Kelly, you were due. Allow yourself time to have the BLAHS and then try to regroup. Hugs to you! Karen

I also wondered about UTI or some other type of infection. My dad has been hospitalized a few times with severe cases of cellulitis and he got very looney! Also makes me suspicious since one of her hallucinations was about urinating. Karen

Probably a good idea to get it checked out. I do not have cancer but have had issues with neuropathy brought on by being hypothyroid. Many people have issues with neuropathy when they have low b12 or when their body does not absorb the b12. I don't know if this is the same for cancer related neuropthy but trying some b12 supplements would not hurt (your body excretes any additional b12 it does not need). I take 2500 MG Sublingual B12 which has really helped me. Good Luck! Keep us posted. Karen

I am so very, very sorry. Karen

I'm sorry you are angry and hope you find your way to forgiveness soon. Be angry at the cancer, not at mom. I did not know your mom but she sounds like she was a fantastic lady...and she obviously did a good job at being a mom because it seems you turned out pretty well. (If we could just get you to stop smoking pot at work!) I think the pride should greatly outweigh the anger! Hang in there Nick! Karen

Cancer SUCKS! We all get that. It's just not right, and it's just not fair. You can come hear to vent about it anytime. Karen

So sorry David did not get better news. Time to put on your boxing gloves and FIGHT! Good Luck! Karen

Thanks for the thoughts. FYI...this was not my mom but my cousin. Mom is still going strong and in remission. Karen

Just an update...she passed away last night. I did not expect her to go that quickly but I know it is for the best. Karen

Thanks for all your responses. To be honest I'm not sure how much liquids she is getting. I know her time here on earth is very limited. So sad to see someones life change overnight. She went on vacation in January and her life has not been the same since, and never will be. Thanks, Karen

I am so sorry this beast is visiting your family again! Hang in there! Karen

My cousin went in to the hospital have her gallbladder removed while on vacation last January. They discovered cancer in the duct leading to the gallbladder. She has been in and out of the hospital ever since then (mostly in) and has not ever been well enough for them to treat the cancer. She's not been able to keep any food down for quite some time now and has been receiving nourishment via a feeding tube. Recently the doctors have decided that the feeding tube is only feeding the cancer and so it has been removed. How long can a person last without nourishment? Thanks, Karen

Missy - I can understand if it is too soon or too painful for you to post at this time, but PLEASE do not think you need to hide your mom's story. When I stumbled across this site I was so happy to find people going through the same thing and I was eager to read the stories of everyone, including those who beat the disease and those who did not. I learned not to listen to statistics, and that everyone's case is different and I learned to appreciate the time we have because nobody knows how long that is. You have a way with words and a way with people. I think any words of advice you have to share will only inspire or encourage newbies. And your mom was a 15 year cervical cancer survivor AND then she had to battle the lung cancer beast too??? I think that is inspirational in itself! Karen

Happy Birthday Kelly! I am so sorry you have to have your first first so soon. The others are right about mom's birthday. It's time for you to carry on the family tradition. Karen

Hope you have a speedy recovery! Karen

How exciting! Are you ready for all this mom??? I am sure you are anxious to see their cute little faces but I hope you have to wait a bit longer. Karen

Any of them look like Deb???

Wow! You are one tough cookie! Thanks for sharing your inspiring story. Karen

Well said Nick! Dana - I am so sorry. Hugs to you. Karen

Brandie - I am so sorry. What should have been the happiest times of your life have been filled with such sorrow. Looks like mom did hold on and make it past the wedding, what a wonderful gift. Hope the marriage holds much more joy than the wedding itself. Karen

Tears as I read this. I don't know how you feel as my parents are both here, but they are 79 and 81 (and both have health issues) and I know I will be in your shoes sooner rather than later. I know I can't say anything to make you feel better, but I am sorry you are feeling this way. And I think it is normal. And don't beat yourself up over the image you are displaying for Sabrina. Sounds to me like you are a great mom. And ALL moms need to make mistakes sometimes and ALL need to grieve when they lose someone special. You will get through this. Karen

Missy ~ I am so, so sorry to hear this. Please find comfort in knowing she is not in pain anymore (although I know yours has just been amplified). Take care of yourself, your baby needs you. Hang in there sweetie! Karen

Tears in my eyes as I read this news as well...but I so understand why you need to go. Tears because I hate to see you go and happy tears because I know these people you will be helping will be so lucky to have you on their side. Lucie may be one of God's angels in heaven now, but I think you are one of God's angels still here on earth. You have touched many hearts here and I am sure you will with your new adventure as well. Wishing you the best. Stop in and say 'hi' when you get a chance. Karen

Wow - what a wonderful tribute! You must be so proud! Karen

I am so sorry your lives are being haunted by this beast again. Your in my prayers. Karen