MilliBr1 Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 Mom went in to hospice on Tuesday. The facility is brand new and it is lovely and the nurses are wonderful. But it is one thing to talk about it in the hospital and another to actually be there. The reality really starts sinking in. On the 29th mom and dad would be celebrating thier 50th anniversary. So today we threw them a party. They have a family room there equipped with a kitchen so we had the party their. It was just the family all 20 of us, 4 daughters and spouses and 12 grandchildren. Mom was quiet, but she seemed to enjoy it. She did enjoy a few sips of a margarita, her favorite, and was quick to lift her finger when the cake was brought out and get some frosting. My sisters and I each took a turn to share memories we had growing up and to tell our parents what they mean to us. I'm so glad we were able to do this not just for my mom, but also for my dad I know it ment a lot to him. He called just a bit ago to say he would be spending the night with mom, she didn't want him to leave. That scares me a little, but at least I know if she does go tonight she won't be alone, but I'm praying we get some more time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 Dear Millie, Don't you just hate it when those realities start to sink in? I know I do. I will be praying that you will have more good times like the anniversary party today with your mom. All those good times and laughs will mean so much to you. Sending you big hugs, Millie. Love, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 Millie, Beautiful, thoughtful event for your parents. I am sure that they were both delighted. I know that I would have been! A taste of margarita and frosting...now it hardly gets better than that. These are memories you will always cherish. keeping you and family in my prayers, dear. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 Beautiful, sad and loving. Millie, What wonderful family memories in the midst of real concerns. We are praying for your family. Love Pat and Brian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 Dear Millie, What a wonderful party you were all able to put on for your mom and dad. I will keep you all in my prayers. There are no words that I can say that will change what your going through, but I know how it hurts. (((((((((((((((MILLIE))))))))))))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jyoung20 Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 Hugs to you!!! What a wonderful daughter you are. You parents are very lucky to have you. My prayers are with you. GOD BLESS!!!! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 So neat of you all to have the 50th wedding anniversary early! That was good for all of you. And it is normal for your mom to want company overnight -- don't read too much into that. I hope your parents get to celebrate again on the 29th. It can happen. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 Sounds like the party was wonderful! Prayers for your mom and the whole family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jorja Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 That is so nice that you were able to give a party for your parents. I am sure it was very uplifting for your mom. I am sending prayers for you and your family..especially your mom. love, jorja Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kel M Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 What a lovely gift to offer your parents and yourselves! I am keeping you all close in thought and prayer. Kel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LynneH Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 Millie, What a wonderful daughter you are. The party sounds like it was so magnificent. Take care, Lynne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted October 4, 2005 Author Share Posted October 4, 2005 And it is normal for your mom to want company overnight -- don't read too much into that. You were right Don mom did just fine she just wanted company. But we must have worn her out as she slept almost all day sunday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fay A. Posted October 4, 2005 Share Posted October 4, 2005 Millie, The party sounds like a wonderful event for your entire family. You're pretty wonderful in the daughter department. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted October 4, 2005 Share Posted October 4, 2005 the party sounds beautiful. I woke up this morning thinking about you, lady. I am keeping you in my thoughts. xoxo bunny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted October 4, 2005 Author Share Posted October 4, 2005 I woke up this morning thinking about you, lady. I am keeping you in my thoughts. Thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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