Tami Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Sorry to trouble all of you but I sure could use some prayers and good thoughts. As some of you know things in my life have been a difficult... working too many jobs, children, marriage issues, my father passed away etc. Well my husband of two years walked out last night so now I'm in the regrouping how am I going to do everything now mode. Money is going to be a huge factor as well coping with being alone and trying to take care of everyone. To top it all off I've been having some sort of flu or something. Not really any sinus just SOB and a bad cough. Feels like my lung is really congested... low fever of about 99-100. I work at a Nursing school so I may have someone here listen to my lung... the marriage breakup may have been inevitable but I feel very sad and alone. The thought of starting over again is scary!!! Some prayers would really help... Thanks,Tami Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 ((((Tami)))), You are SO not alone!!!!!! You have had a full plate, it seems, for some time. Let's make a plan and go one step at a time. First thing.............get straightened out with this 'flu' or whatever. Just focus on that for today and tomorrow. Can't do much when you feel punky and worried about the lung you still have!!!!! THEN............prioritize. What MOST needs your attention next? Maybe sit down and go over all finances carefully and have a strategy in place to help you cope with that. You ARE going to do this ~~ oh yes you are. AND we are going to help you! This ain't called a family here for nothin', ya know!!! So Tami..............hope you are taking a breath about now and ready to see someone for that cough. You BETTER keep us up to date and not disappear and worry us to death! We are here! Love, Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Tami, This just stinks. I'll be careful about using the M word (as in men). Don't think of it as starting over, but as having a clean slate. From your picture you are young and drop dead gorgeous, so many things in your favor. Take it one day or hour or minute at a time, however you need to do it. Get someone to check your flu symptoms, you don't need to be sick on top of this news. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Prayers comin'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rogfam Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 I'm so sorry Tami. I'll be praying for you. Don't forget, God has a plan for YOU! ((hugs)) Christy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melindasue37 Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Kasey sure gave you lots of good advice!!!!!! Just take it one day a time right now. Anything else is just too overwhelming! And remember, when one door closes, another one opens. (I know it is so hard to see that sometimes though) Get yourself feeling better and then you can begin to figure this all out. In the meantime, I'm thinking and praying for you!! Warm Hugs, Melinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 prayers, honey. sorry for all this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joanie55 Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 You have my best wishes and I truely believe things always work out for the best. If he left, you're probably better off with him not in your life. Joan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Tami, Prayers on the way for you and the children. Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Men Can be replaced. I am one so don't jump. Your health can't. It is more important than any guy. remember it is his loss not yours. There are a lot of people here pulling for you and we will do whatever we can to help. sending prayers for good neews on your "FLU" or whatever. One thing at a time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I am sorry for what you are going through. It will be hard at first but you'll get through this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michelepal Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Tami, I'm really sorry that your having such a difficult time. Kasey gave you the best advice, Make sure you take care of yourself first and then one day at a time.. were all here for you.. Praying for you! Love, Michele Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Prayers for the best, hang in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Tami honey, I am so sorry to hear this news and this burden you are carrying is so heavy right now. Please just concentrate on feeling better and taking care of yourself. This is so new right now and you are feeling devestated and scared. After you start to physically feel better then you can put your priorities in order. You are not alone, we will help you through this. Do you have a friend or family member you can lean on for emotional and physical support? You will get through this Tami, like Kasey said, one day at time. We care about you and we have strong shoulders here, we can help you take some of that weight off your shoulders. Prayers sent to you Tami, Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kreed70 Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 I am so sorry that you are going through all of this. I will be praying for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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