Ann Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 You have a falling out with your best friend, and you haven't heard from in few weeks. You: Move on... the drama probably isn't worth it I don't have a best friend, I fell out with them all!!! Wah!!! Call your friend and say that you're ready to talk Invite your friend out to do something special. Other Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 I learned a long time ago that good friends are precious, better than gold. I will not let a good friend go, I fight like crazy to keep them as a friend. So, I pick up the phone, and say, "OK, let's talk, I care about you too much." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dchurchi Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 I would invite her out, something fun to relax us both then get to the root of what caused the falling out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 Call and get back on track. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bev'sSister Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 I had a good friend of 16 years, and her drinking was getting a little out of control. She was driving while drunk, etc., so I told her I thought she may need some help. Well, why did I do that? I got the biggest tounge lashing, name calling e-mail from her that I will never forget. The things she said to me, made it impossible for me to call and try and get back on track. So..I guess I can say that "I move on" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larry Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 Tho not as stubborn as my late Wife (oh boy could she carry a grudge) it would depend on the circumstances..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 I call and invite her out to do something we both know how irrational the other one may get Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 I would call, but it would take me a while. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myrnalu Posted June 1, 2007 Share Posted June 1, 2007 I would call but like Ry I would wait a while.Im stubborn I guess.Then if the falling out was my fault id call sooner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 It had happened once and I called, its was cool. We are still the best of friends, even though we don't see each other enough. But I love her and could not imagine my life without her. She gave a speech at my surprise party. She told Joel she just couldn't do it in front of all those people, then she called back and said Yes, I will. Her speech brought me to tears. I was more impressed that she actually did this. Friends are special, especially the gold ones. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelley (MLC) Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Unfortunately, I can be pretty stubborn. If it was "my" fault, I'd eventually make the call, but if it was "theirs" I will wait until they call me. Shelley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamataca Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 Call...unless emailing was an option. If it were my best friend of many years, I just couldn't let something stupid get in the way. If it were someone fairly new, it would take me a lot longer. Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEA Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 Life's too short....call. Tomorrow it might not be an option. My best friend died in December and I didn't get to say good by. Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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