kamataca Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 This morning a dear friend Lisa, who has children at my school, died of cancer. I knew this was coming, it is really a blessed relief for this warrior woman, but I just feel ripped in two. Her 4th and 7th graders (7th grader is in my class) are at school today. Her 16-year old daughter, a former student of mine, went to school, too. I feel like, after all I have been through, I should know what to say or do for the boys. I just feel impotent in my grief today. I hugged the younger boy, told him that I loved him and his family and that I was praying for him. Thankfully, as a Catholic school, we can pray openly and talk about it. I took my 6th grade class over to the church and we prayed for the family together. I'm trying to make today as "normal" as possible for the older boy, but be compassionate and loving as well. I want to help the boys, and be strong for them, and be the person they need today. I also want to cry at the drop of a hat. I loved and admired Lisa. Mom loved and admired her, too. I think Mom met her at the gates of heaven today with a party hat, and a hug. I love this family, and these kids, and I've walked this road with them for the past 6 years. When my mom died, the boy came to the funeral, and the 16-year old wrote me the most beautiful letter--one that I kept and still look at often (she had a GREAT English teacher, I tell you ). I feel lost, but I feel like I need to be together for the boys. I just needed to come somewhere and say that. I'm so glad you guys are here. Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mary colleen Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Wow. I'm so sorry. Wish I could help those kids, and I'm so grateful that you are so kind and concerned with them. Life is hard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovesLife Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Oh Kelly I am so sorry. What a horrible situation. I was just wondering that since you found the letter he wrote for you about your mom and you found such comfort with it; would it be something you can do for him about his mom? Just a thought. I will pray for the family and for you. I am so sorry that cancer has claimed yet another. Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lc46 Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I'm so sorry. It upsets me so much when I hear of a young Mom dying especially leaving behind kids. I'm sure you will be a tremendous help to her children and family. Dar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Breaks my heart to read this. I can't imagine. I can't stand losing mom at 32, much less at the age these kids are at. So sorry. And sorry that you lost someone you cared for. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 So sorry for all touched by this tragedy. Prayers for all.........and YOU, Kelly, for I am certain you will be a port in the storm for those kids. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Kelly , I'm so sorry. This is so sad. It's hard for me to read these stories and understand why. I wouldn't know what to say to the kids either.. just give em big big hugs. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tkelley Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I'm sorry Kelly. As you know, I'm kind of feeling the same way today. All of the cancer loss around me lately is just so, so sad. You are still grieving for your mom and as a mom, feel for the boys as well as the loss of your friend. Sending hugs and prayers your way. It sounds like you made some great choices in dealing with the kids in class though. You sound like such a wonderful teacher. Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystleshoe Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 Kelly I am so sorry that you have had another loss to cancer. This breaks my heart to think of those kids without their mom. They are so lucky to have you in their lives and I am sure that you will be a great comfort to them in the difficult weeks and months to come. Thinking of you and them tonight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted January 17, 2008 Share Posted January 17, 2008 (((((Kelly))))) I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and of course with Lisa's family. Warmly Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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