Kerri Gottlieb Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 My Mom died at home 2 weeks ago (Feb. 15). It was really peaceful, like she just forgot to take a breath. Hospice was amazing. My job as a caretaker is over and I'm finding it difficult to even have the energy to look for a new job. My Dad and I (Mom's main caregivers) joined a Bereavement Support group through our church that started today. Unlike everyone else who can go back to their lives, it's different for us. For me, I guess I just feel a little lost. But I know it is only temporary. At least I have my husband. I cannot even imagine how my Dad feels. Just wanted to thank you all for the hope and info that you gave to both my Mom and myself for the last year and a 1/2. Without this message board and the people here, we never would have made it through this process. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larry's Wife Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Kerri, I'm so sad to hear of the passing of your beautiful mother. My deepest condolences to you and your dad. Lynn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patti B Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 ((((((Kerri)))))) I am so deeply saddened by this message. Your mom and I had that "connection" altho we only spoke occassionally. I had been thinking about her. You were the most amazing daughter to her and her love for you always shone through on all her messages. Please continue to come here for support. PM me if you need to talk. I am so sorry. Hugs - Patti B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 ((((Kerri)))) I am so sorry.. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Hugs, prayers and condolences Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
recce101 Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Kerri, I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Her spirit and zest for life touched many of us, and of course that lives on in you. Peace and Aloha, Ned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovesLife Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Kerri - I am so sad to hear about your mom. She had such a beautiful personality - every time I see that picture of the two of you I smile as the love just radiated from the both of you. I am glad that hospice was a good experience for your family and that your mom passed gently. I hope the Bereavement group helps you all through the difficult days ahead. Again, my sincere condolences on your profound loss. Hugs, Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandraL Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Hi Kerri. I am saddened to hear of your sweet mom. I am glad her passing was peaceful. Although you didn't post her that often, I do remember your posts and your love for your mom. You were such a great support to her. My heartfelt condolences to you and your dad. Sandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 I am so sorry for your loss. My sympathy to you and your father. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alisa Posted March 5, 2009 Share Posted March 5, 2009 I am so sorry to hear about your Mom, Kerri. She was a very active member here and she will be greatly missed by all. Many blessings, Alisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted March 6, 2009 Share Posted March 6, 2009 Kerri, my sincere condolences to you and your father for your loss. So many people have depended on hospice to ease the passing of loved ones. I am so glad they were able to serve your mother and your family well in your time of need. I just recently heard a man talk about a grieving group and how much it helped him face the loss of his wife. I hope yours will do the same for you and your father. Judy in Key Wes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie01 Posted March 7, 2009 Share Posted March 7, 2009 Hi Kerri, I'm new here and haven't read any of your posts until this one about your mom passing and was so touched. (My mom is in the very beginning stages of diagnosis.) I'm so sorry for your loss. You both look so beautiful in the picture posted here. I wish you and your dad peace. I will pray for you both. Hugs! Annie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barb73 Posted March 7, 2009 Share Posted March 7, 2009 Dear Kerri, Please accept my condolences to you and your father. I am so very sorry for your loss. Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nonni Posted April 17, 2009 Share Posted April 17, 2009 Kerry...I am sorry I just got to this post...never the less I did want to tell you I was very saddened to hear of your Mom's passing...She was such a beautiful woman inside and out...and you were such a loving care taker....I know you miss her very much but think how much she appreciated you and loved you....Take heed...you will see her again...and until then know how much you were loved... Take care ...and Blessing to your DAd... hugs...nonni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted April 18, 2009 Share Posted April 18, 2009 I am so very sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your father. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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