shordy Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Today's my birthday and it's my first one without my Dad & I miss him SO. No one seems to understand except my Husband & my Stepmom. But I still feel alone in this. I'll have my big cry tomorrow, I had to make a "show" for my birthday today so I made sure I didn't cry, no wonder I'm on "anti-depressants." But I'm not depressed!! I just miss my Dad, I still wear my shoe charm that's heart shaped & says "My Heart Belongs To Daddy" and the gold pendant that says Daddy's Girl. I guess I'll just have to do that til I get over it. Thanks for listening. Love you all, Shordy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirleyb Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Shordy, May you have a blessed birthday. My kids have had their first birthday's without their dad. It was hard for them too but the day passes and life goes on. Like they have said, they think about their dad everyday and there is just no way to get over missing him. I am glad your husband and step-mom understand. Take care and enjoy the day. It is the anniversary of one of the happiest day's in your dad's life. You were born to them and what a blessing that has been. Love, Shirleyb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathy Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 I know how you feel. I had a bday 2 weeks ago. Sure was glad when that day was over. Its almost like I waited for my dad to call and say "Happy Birthday Cat" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathy Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHORDY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Happy Birthday Shordy. Remember, parents want their children to be happy and healthy. Sure we want them to miss us but I know I want my kids to always be happy, I want them to think of me smiling because they have happy, funny memories of me. Ginny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David A Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Happy Birthday Shordy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelliemacs Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Happy Birthday. I know its not the best birthday, but do't wish them away, you will see your daddy one day soon anyway. Cathy, I thought when I read your post quick, that it said you had a BABY to weeks ago. I was about to congratulate you till I read it twice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Happy birthday, Shordy! It's so good to hear from you again. Take care. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 HAPPY BIRTHDAY- SHORDY, I hope you have many more.Even tho you miss your Dad keep your chin up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
natalie Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Shordy, I'm sorry that you have to have your birthday without your Dad. I hope the day goes by fast for you and that you can manage to find a few hours where you are actually really smiling and enjoying yourself...that's what your Dad would want. Happy Birthday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Hey Shordy, where you been girl? Happy Birthday! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamie Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Happy Birthday Shordy!!! Im sure your Dad is "up there" singing you the same tune!!! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MO_Sugar Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 Happy Birthday Shordy! The "First's" are always the hardest. God Bless, MO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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