nancy c

Have a great holiday..God bless Lucie..she's something!! Love, Nancy C

Val, as you..it was different. Sad, empty and not the same. Nothing will be the same. God bless you, Nancy C

I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you,Nancy C

Oh my God, that is your dear husband telling you all is well. THANK THE GOOD LORD!! How could you not believe in the afterlife...this makes me feel so good. I want to know all of our loved ones are ok and waiting for us. You were fortunate enough to get the message from God and your husband. I am so very happy. Have a great Thanksgiving...believe in it all...there is no other explanation. God bless you,...again, Nancy C

I am so sorry ...you have enough on your plate. God bless you...I know you are strong and will be there for your parents thru this all. I am praying for you. Nancy C

I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you, Nancy C

Lil, I think you are doing great. Look at you...getting up everyday..working your tail off. You have good work ethics, and morals. I think you always think of others first. You are a wonderful, giving person. God puts us on this earth to accomplish what we can. Lil, you have done so much..and many times with so little. Sometimes, we have to put ourselves first...and I think that is hard for you. Sometimes, it's hard to take care of ourselves first...when we are so used to giving instead of receiving. You are a true angel. Take care of you. You deal with life's troubles daily and do a damn good job of it. I am proud of you. You will be repaid for all your kindness and love. God bless you, Nancy C p.s Keep your head up

It was very apparent to me from your post...you were remembering..... thru all the bad and good..you had a man in your life you loved so much. And with his loss, you have memories which now are priceless. You went to hell and back with this man...and you don't regret anytime you have given him. You are an amazing woman....and a nurse...and us nurses care and nuture. I wish you peace and comfort. For you have provided that for your dear husband. You knew his soul and heart. You loved him from within. God will only bless someone like you. Please keep in touch. You have amazing insight into people. God bless, Nancy C

I am sorry. It is hard ... all these new "firsts". I know your sadness. Hang in there, honey. It is hard to lose someone you love so much. God bless, Nancy C

Beth, I am praying for you and your family. I am sorry for this difficult time in your life. God bless, Nancy C

I am still praying for both of you. God bless you, and I wish you lots of great moments together. Nancy

Pat, I know it is so hard to sit and watch this disease and treatment take alot out of Brian. I too, felt the same way when Mike was going thru this. You feel afraid, helpless, and worried all the time. But, all you can do is love him and be with him. He needs you now. God bless, Nancy C

Peggy, I have lots and LOTSSSSSSSS of HUGSSSSSSSSS for you!!! It is so hard some days, I know. And then there are days that are better. Everyday that is rough, is another day behind us. And we know that a good day will be coming. I have had very few days at work that I don't cry, but I work with 22 other women(all nurses) so we are in the business of "taking care of others." I pray that things will get better for you, as I know your heart is broken. But, God bless you and Don is with you always. Nancy C

I am so sorry for another loss you have suffered. God bless, Nancy

I am sorry you at this point. But be asured that hospice is a present sent from God above. I wish you and your family peace and love. Love your mother all you can. God bless, Nancy C

YOU ARE TRULY AMAZING. I LOVE YOU!!! TAKE CARE AND KEEP UP THE GOOD SPIRITS!! AND GOD BLESS YOU....YOU ARE SUCH AN ANGEL!! LOVE, NANCY C

I know how hard it is to hang in there. But, believe me, when my brother died unexpectly at age 41, on Oct 21, four months to the date I loss Mike...I thought I would die. But, I have one sister and 4 other brothers that were just as hurt as I was. So we hung on to each other. I also wondered how much more I could take. But, somehow we are so much stronger than we think we are. Somehow, we make it through this hell on earth. I can only wish and pray there is something better awaiting us. How could there not be? I know you have to feel absolutely exhausted. You are constantly working so hard. But, maybe it's time to slow down...give yourself a break. Maybe it's time to pamper yourself. I know we all work hard to meet our bills....and something always happens that causes us a set back. My prayers are here for you. I pray God gives you so release from all this stress in your life. Also, the song you are talking about "Making memories of Us" by Keith Urban...was played at Mike's funeral. That song so described my love for Mike, and I know him for me. So, I know how that makes you feel. Life is hard without our loved ones. I cried today, because my fridge went dead. I had to go buy a new one. But, it upset me...because those are the things Mike took care of. I didn't have to worry about those things. I really relied on him. I miss him so much, as you do Johnny. I just pray this gets easier for us. I pray we can someday feel comfort and peace. God bless you, Nancy C

I am so very sorry for your loss. God bless you. Nancy C

I am praying, for both of you. God will take care of you. Give Brian alots of love, kisses, and hugs. God bless you, Nancy C

I am very sorry you are at this point with your mother. But, my experiences with hospice have been very nice. They were experts and provided comfort for the patients and family. If you don't feel this way, please let the proper people know. Take are, I am praying for you and your family. God bless, Nancy

I am sorry for everyone's heartache at Christmas. I know mine won't be the same. God bless you all, and I am holding everyone in my prayers. God bless,Nancy C

Addie, just keep fighting. The chemo can be hard and knock the hell out of ya...but you'll come back fighting like always. God bless,Nancy C

Thank you for your post. I am looking for miracles. With the recent loss of my brother, his death brought us other 6 siblings and our divorced parents together...for sadness yes, but real togetherness. With the illness of my husband and my loss of him....my brother Ron who just died..we spend so much time together as he helped me thru Mike's illness and death. We had taken a trip to Memphis together in Sept and met my sister and her husband there. We had the time of our lives. I will always have those wonderful memories. I miss Mike and Ron so much. God bless, Nancy C

I am so sorry Brian is feeling terrible. I am praying for both of you. I know this is a terrible time for you. Just be there for him. God takes care of all of us. I feel your pain and hurt seeing Brian feeling so bad. Take care and hang in there. God bless, Nancy C

Thanks to all of you for your support. Everyone here has enough of their own baggage to handle, and me adding burden doesn't help. Thanks for the positive thoughts. I wish all of you love and peace.Thanks, God bless,Nancy C