Lori,
You keep on being your mom's advocate. She knows you will help her to get things done. You did the right thing. That's why she told you she had a headache... Don't take to heart what your SF says to you. Just let it slide, he is showing he is not in control, even in your mom's eyes. Keep up the good job. They will run tests and get her the right care...Never,never give up, your mom wants to live and fight this disease.
Sending you and mom, lot's of prayers. Please keep us posted....
Please keep venting to us here. We will support you and give you as much information as we have...
God Bless and hugs,
Karen