Welcome!
Remember, the statistics are based on old studies with older technology.
They had about written me completely off,IIIa, tumor 9 x 13 x 4.5 cm until I found a surgeon who said, "I think I can help".
After chemo and radiation,they pulled a 13 pound tumor out of my chest cavity; I lost one lobe of left lung, one collarbone and 5 ribs.
I am still here. 5 years later.
Try to explain to them this is a new normal. You have less energy and stamina now, although you may find as time passes you get sick less and feel better more.
Your worldview will never be the same.
Last night while getting the mail I saw a rose in bloom the most wonderful shade of salmon, and I remarked how lovely it was.
My ten year old told me to quit acting stupid over a flower and come on, let's go.
What a difference perspective makes.
Hugs and prayers,
MaryAnn
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