patut Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 It's been a whirlwind few days. Tim tried three different pain killers and ended up so ill (pain and vomiting) we took him to the emergency room. Turned out an xray showed a kind of obstruction in bowl again so he was admitted. The cancer is now in liver and I guess the intestine, thus the pain. He's coming home tomorrow and hospice has been invited in. This is so difficult to comprehend. He is being a real trooper and will be glad to come home. All our kids will be home a couple days after Christmas. I just don't know what to expect and can't believe our lives have taken such a turn. He's coming home not to die, but rather to live the rest of his life. Trying to be brave, Cyndy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiny Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 Life's twists and turns can be so convoluted and earth-shattering . I'm so sorry for your situation and send wishes that your bravery stands you in good stead as you and Tim get the most out of life that you can at this time. Blessings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 Cyndy, I don't know what to say. I am so sorry it has come to this but what a good thought, coming home to live - and the kids are coming. Our thoughts are with you and Tim. I hope the coming days can be peaceful, comfortable, and have some joy in them. Margaret & Jim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 Cyndy, I'm so sorry. I'm sure that "trying to be brave" is hard to do. I've projected that in my own mind if it ever comes to that for us, and can't even imagine how you are feeling right now. Hang in there, hon. I hope you know we are all here for you. Don't hesitate to hop on here every day if you have to, or 10 times a day. We're here to listen and love you. Love, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barbara w Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 I love that you said he's coming home to live the rest of his life - you're so right. Make as many happy memories as you can together over these holidays. Barbara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ken f. Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 hi, there is luck here. lucky for him that you are in his life. and lucky for you that you can love and care so. i remember the day i had to buy morphine for my then terminally ill wife. it seemed difficult at moments. but i found a peace in loving, caring for, and helping another that i've not matched before of since. it was okay for me each moment if could break out the moments from the stream of appearances. may much peace and many blessing rain upon you and your loved one. ken Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nushka Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 Cindy, I am sorry that things have taken a turn for the worse. I admire your attitudes and pray that the holidays won't be too painful and stressful for either of you. Glad the kids will be home for a few days. You are both in my prayers. Nina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karen335 Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 Cindi, Miracles do happen. Keep the faith and we will all be praying for your precious Tim. This is a special time of the year. We are here for you... God Bless and prayers, Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 Cyndy, I marvel at your strength and attitude. This can certainly be a time of love and laughter. I would lie with Earl and we would reminise (spell check where are you) and laugh about our life's adventures. It is good that he is coming home and that your children are coming to visit. I will keep you both in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fay A. Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 Cyndy, Wishing you both comfort and joy in each other's company. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SDianneB Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 Cyndy & Tim -- how sorry I am that you have to go through this. I had a dear friend who had an attitude that sounds like Tim's -- he knew he had a limited time to live, but said he never wanted to be seen as "dying." So, that's how we saw him -- he was never "dying" -- always living. And live he did -- every minute. Try to enjoy your holidays and your family -- they are very precious. Di Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 Cyndy, I'm at a loss for words. My heart goes out to you and Tim. I will pray for God to be with you, Tim and your family in all the days ahead. Remember you have friends on this board, whenever you need to vent your fears, or ask for help and support. God Bless you, sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elaine Posted December 17, 2004 Share Posted December 17, 2004 Cyndy I am so sorry, but I keep hope alive that once Tim's pain is managed he can regain strength. Pain knocks so much out of person. I wish you peaceful days ahead. I hope you know how many friends you have here, and I for one wish I could be closer or do more or know the right thing to say or do. Just follow your hearts. love and fortitude elaine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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