Flyman35 Posted December 22, 2008 Share Posted December 22, 2008 Crappy second Crappy minute Crappy hour Crappy day Crappy week Crappy month Crappy life Crappy year coming on here. I have made the most gut wrenching, heart breaking, and depressing decision of my life. I feel horrible, horrible, horrible, horrible, horrible but it had to be done because I just can’t do it anymore. I have given Jayla back to Christy for good. I dropped her off this morning on my way to work with all her clothes. There is a bunch more to it but I won’t go into it right now. I have yet to decorate or buy gifts for Christmas. Why start now. I think I’ll just skip Christmas this year. Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted December 22, 2008 Share Posted December 22, 2008 Sounds like there is a lot to it, I am sorry there are such complexities...and it sounds like heartbreak too. I'm really sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted December 22, 2008 Share Posted December 22, 2008 Giving up a child you have been raising is the worst. I'm not sure Denise, but is she your niece? I know whatever the relation, she probably feels like your child. For what it's worth, I think you probably did the right thing. It will give you and Tom more quality time together and you SOME REST. Judy in Key West Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flyman35 Posted December 22, 2008 Author Share Posted December 22, 2008 Judy - She is my 2 1/2 yr old granddaughter and has lived with me since birth. I feel like a part of me has died. Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted December 22, 2008 Share Posted December 22, 2008 (((Denise))), I don't know what brought all this on, but obviously it didn't happen overnight. I'm just so sorry. My heart goes out to you. I will be praying for your entire family , especially little Jayla. Hugs, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted December 22, 2008 Share Posted December 22, 2008 just prayers hugs and Big warm blankets out of the dryer to wrap up in!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muriel Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 Denise, I'm so sorry about that. ((((((Denise)))))) Muriel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patti B Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 ((((((Denise)))))) My heart is breaking for you. I know she is the love of your life. I wish I was there to hug you in person. I am so sorry. ((((((DENISE)))))) Many many hugs - Patti B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandraL Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 Hey Denise. I am sorry to read your news. Lots of hugs for all involved. Sandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larry's Wife Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 (((Denise))) I'm so sorry. I'm sending all the good thoughts and prayers I can. Love you, Sis. Lynn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 I feel your pain, more then you know. ((((((((((DENISE))))))))))) You just keep loving your grandbaby and being in her life, it'll all work out. Deep Breath In, blow it out. You'll get through this minute by minute. second by second. Just remember she's within reach. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy Posted December 24, 2008 Share Posted December 24, 2008 Huge hugs are being sent your way. Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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