Ann

Sorry...no advice but do want you to know that I am thinking of you and your dad and praying for only great results!

You know, I had the opportunity to meet up with one guy I dated in high school and backed out. I think too many changes had occured in my life and I wasn't that high school girl anymore. About a year after Dennis died, he called me. We talked on the phone and exchanged email messages. I could see that the attraction was long gone. But...I do know of a few couples that have reunited after many years and are the happiest they have ever been.

I'm sure my Dennis is making new friends like crazy. He's such a nice and friendly guy and always has attracted people like a magnet. I'm sure he's buddies with all the folks from our message board that are enjoying heaven with him.

He was a wonderful actor. I always enjoyed watching him on television.

Ry, thanks for keeping us posted on Rich's condition. I am so glad to hear this was a mild attack and that he will be going home soon.

Don't have any answers but can tell you I will be saying prayers for your mom.

Sorry things aren't going so great for you right now. I'm saying prayers things will improve quickly. I have to honestly tell you that some of the most beautiful women I have ever seen have been completely bald. When there is no hair to distract from their beautiful eyes and facial features, a womans true beauty shines. Hey...hats are really in right now. Take advantage and be stylish!!!

Such great news! I am so happy for you and your family! I know how very relieved you must be after getting this news! Keep it up, Mike!!!

Debi...I love this. I saw a copy of this once and have always wished I had written it down. These words are so true. Thanks so much for sharing this with us.

If the situation occurred (spouses die/divorce), would you date your high school sweetheart again? Could you imagine being married to them now?

Sorry guys...just couldn't resist sharing this one. THE HILLBILLY VASECTOMY After their 11th child, an Alabama couple decided that was enough as they could not afford a larger bed. So the husband went to his veterinarian and told him that he and his cousin didn't want to have any more children. The doctor told him that there was a procedure called a vasectomy that could fix the problem but that it was expensive. "A less costly alternative," said the doctor, "is to go home, get a cherry bomb, (fireworks are legal in Alabama) light it, put it in a beer can, then hold the can up to your ear and count to 10" The Alabamian said to the doctor, "I may not be the smartest tool in the shed, but I don't see how putting a cherry bomb in a beer can next to my ear is going to help me." "Trust me," said the doctor. So the man went home, lit a cherry bomb and put it in a beer can. He held the can up to his ear and began to count... > > "1" > > "2" > > "3" > > "4" > > "5" > > > > > > (you'll love this......) > > > > > > > > > > At which point he paused, placed the beer can between his legs and resumed counting on his other hand.

One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the battle is between 2 wolves inside us all: One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority and ego. The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith." The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf wins?" The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."

This is terrible news! Rich is such a wonderful friend to all of us on the board. I am remembering him in my prayers. Ry, please keep us posted.

Sue...so sorry this was a rough day for Mike. I'm saying a prayer that tommorrow will be a better day for both of you.

So very glad that your mom came through surgery in good shape. I am thinking of you both and saying lots of prayers.

Jodi, dealing with cancer is an emotional roller coaster ride for the patients and caregivers. Your emotions can change from day to day as you never seem to know just what to expect. Please know that what you're feeling is completely normal. So glad you found our group.

Dogs vs. Humans Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife, Lisa, and their little boy, Shane, were all very attached to Belker and they were hoping for a miracle. I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family there were no miracles left for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home. As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for the four-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience. The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away. The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know why." Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. He said, "People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life, like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?" The four-year-old continued, "Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long." Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.

So very sorry for your loss. Your dad was very fortunate to have you helping with his care.

I am so very sorry for your loss. SharKat will be missed by many friends here on the message board.

I used to be a big time coupon clipper but rarely use them anymore. It used to seem like I would clip them and then never had them with me when I needed them. Like Ginny, I do clip the department store coupons. They really come in handy when I can use them on an item that's on sale.

Sue, please know my prayers will continue for you and Mike!!!!

I am so very sorry that your Ed is not doing well right now. I am absolutely heartbroken that your stepson is being such a jerk right now and giving you a rough time. Being a caregiver is a very difficult task and anyone that has not walked a mile in the shoes of a caregiver should not throw any stones. Your stepson should be there helping you care for his father and should never expect you to be the one responsible for all his care. If I were you, I would continue doing things the way I have been and tell your stepson to but out. If he has nothing better to do than critize the people that are helping his dad, he should get a muzzle and wear it!!! I'm keeping you and Ed in my thoughts and prayers.

So very sorry for your loss.

Do you clip and use coupons from the Sunday paper?

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