Rob, Sorry to hear about your dad's health. Keep your chin up, maybe it was a fluke. I will keep my fingers crossed for that. There are many survivors here that are very knowledgeable and helpful in this area.
As to your question on whether people need to know 100% of the details or just part of them, I am with Rochelle - everyone was different. I personally didn't ever get many statistics from my doctor, she actually stressed that they were very outdated and stated how every situation was different. I knew the diagnosis was bad, but really spent most of my time coming and going to appointments, doing chemo, surgery and what-have-you and left the statistics to the doctors. I was truly too numb at the time. I did become more knowledgeable during the journey, but for me I needed to learn it at my own pace.
I know a few people that were info junkies and knew every statistic and medical alternative too, this is also good for some.
Overall I think taking it one day at a time and accepting only what you can in that day works for most people.
Good luck to you and your father. I will be praying for good test results.
Wendy
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