Dixie,
I have tried and tried to think of what to
say to you that would make you understand
what everyone is trying to tell you but I
don't believe anyone can help you but you.
I don't smoke and never have. I have lost
several family members to cancer. My Mom to
lung cancer, my Dad to angiosarcoma, my Uncle
to cancer all through his body (Vietnam vet)
and my cousin in his 20's to bone cancer. They
all smoked and I was there for all of them
with unconditional love. I never said anything
to them about their smoking because it didn't
matter they didn't deserve cancer because they
smoked.
You need to get help, grow up and learn to have
unconditional love for your family member before
it is too late. Life is too short and I hope the
last memory you have isn't b****ing about his
smoking.
Pamela