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That's great news Myrna. Continued best wishes Sandra

Hi Johnny. I am saddened to hear of your mom's passing. You obviously loved her immensely and she was lucky to have you by her side. Please do come back and let us know how you are doing. Sandra

Hi Lilly. Thanks for writing and getting our thoughts out there to share. I too am fearful. I have times when I am more fearful than others. Not necessarily for myself but for my family. I do not want them to have to go through my death. But, while I am alive, I sure don't want them to have worry and fear. So I try my best to put a brave face on so that think mom is okay. Recently I have found it more difficult to be positive. I am no longer working and am fairly housebound. With my dropped foot and my back pain I have lost a fair bit of my independence. But I know that I will have to adjust and figure out my newest normal and be as positive as I can with the cards I have been dealt. It isn't easy. Sandra

Hi Leslie. I am so sorry to hear about your grandma. I am sure you are very scared and it is not surprising that you think about it all the time. It has all happened very fast but do not give up hope. Just take it one day at a time. Hopefully they can stabilize her in the hospital and get her feeling better. Then potential further treatment can be discussed. Most importantly, like you are doing already, is to spend quality time with her. I am glad you found this site. It is full of kind people who get what you are going through. And we are all here for you, with whatever question you have or just for support. Please keep us posted on how you and your grandma are doing. Sandra

My sincere condolences to the family. She definitely fought a long hard battle. And she sounded like the most lovely lady. May she rest in peace. Sandra

Hi there. Go ahead and vent...this is the place to do it. This disease is just awful for all involved, patients and family members. And it is just so unfair sometimes to have to go through it all. But we do, and we just take it one day at a time and keep hoping beyond hope that things will improve. And sometimes they do. So prayers that your pop pop improves and that all are able to enjoy the more positive moments with him now. Take care Sandra

Hi Dawn. Happy Birthday. It sounds like you have an awesome celebration planned. Enjoy your cake! Many, many more... Sandra

Teardrop. I am saddened to hear of your sweet sister's passing. I wish you strength in the difficult days ahead. God bless you and your family. Sandra

Lots of prayers for your mom Tina. Please keep us posted when you are able. Sandra

Hi Alyssa. I am saddened to read about what you are going through. Your dear mom's passing is quite enough to deal with. Adding your dad into the mix and all your feelings about him just makes it all the more difficult. But you are right, I am sure your mom is evern more proud of you for being there for him at this time. Please know that we are here for you and care. Sandra

Hi Kelly. I am saddened to read about your mom's passing. It happened all to quickly. It is good to know that you left nothing unsaid. Prayers for strength for you and your family during this difficult time. Take care Sandra

Hi Linda. Yes that is interesting and strange. But so good to hear that your mom is doing so well. Continued best wishes Sandra

Hi Alyssa. The cardinal story is lovely and I would be willing to bet that it was your dear mom wishing you well and letting you know she misses you as well but is doing okay. It is good to see you posting. There are many here who do absolutely get what you are going through. My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. Sandra

That's great Gayle. Please refer them here. There are many kind knowledgeable people who participate on this site. We are saddened when people have a reason to find us but glad that they have found the site.

Hi Kelly. I have been on alimta, gemzar and tarceva. With varied side effects on each. There are other 2nd line chemos as well. Sandra

Hi Patti. I am sorry to hear of the latest developments after doing so well for so long. Of course you are angry. But as others have said it is confined to the lung so that is a good thing. Lots of prayers and positive thoughts that the radiation and the chemo do their job and you can get on with your life. Take care and please keep us posted on how you are doing. Sandra

Hi Ann. May your day be full of fond memories. Sandra

Hi Kelly. I am sorry to hear of your progression. Yes the doc will probably suggest another type of chemo of which there are several to choose from. Best of luck with your appt and hopefully 2nd line treatment. Sandra

Hi there. Well if she thinks she is going to bounce back then that is a good sign. She is at least still in fighting spirits and I am sure you are supporting her in that. It's also good to hear that you are taking extra time to be with her. I am sure she very much appreciates that. Lots of prayers that she continues to fight and gets to see her grandchild. Take care Sandra

Hi Denise. I just wanted to send you my best wishes for tomorrow. Take care Sandra

Hi Anya and welcome to the group. I am so sorry to hear about your friend. He is obviously very lucky to have you looking out for him. You have received lots of great advice already. Just take it one day at a time. Everyone responds to treatments differently so you just need to wait and see what happens and most likely it will be pretty bearable. Do have him drink lots during chemo as that helps. Even at the expense of eating, drink all you can. Please take care and let us know how you and your friend are doing. Sandra

Hi there Annie. I just wanted to comment further on the smoking thing and talking with your mom. I am sure she will be thrilled that you have quit and probably wishes she could herself. And you obviously have the empathy of her not being able to or not wanting to right now. So I don't suspect you quitting will be much of an issue. Talking outside sounds like a great idea if possible. But if not, a little second hand smoke at this time is not going to make a huge difference in the grand scheme of things. I am sure you are more concerned about spending quality time with your dear mom. I am sure all will go well. Take care Sandra

Hi Dawn and welcome. Yours is quite a story. Congrats on your success to date, that is remarkable. I look forward to getting to know you better on the boards. Take care Sandra

I am so sorry to hear that, that is so sad. My condolences to all of the family. May they find strength to get through the days ahead. Hopefully they are able to acknowledge his death at the wedding and still have a wonderful day. Sandra

Hi Jen. I am so sorry to hear about your mom and to hear about how long it has taken to get the lung cancer diagnosis. That said, all is not lost and there is always HOPE. She is probably at Stage 4, as are many survivors here on this website. Have a look in the good news forum or the mystory forum and you will read of many success stories. There are many chemotherapy treatments that she might be given to stabilize her cancer. The beginning of the lung cancer journey is a very scary one as there are so many unanswered questions. Once you get the results of her tests, a treatment plan can be put into place and you can focus your attention on that and get into fighting mode. It will still be awful to deal with but the sheer panic will go away and hope can be seen. Please do not let a doctor tell you how long she has to live unless you really want some statistical estimate. They won't be right anyways. We are all individuals and there are many many people here who have survived much much longer than their initial prognosis. I am glad you found this site. It is full of kind knowledgable people who are here for whatever you need. Ask any question you like or come here for emotional support. You will find plenty of both. Please keep us posted on how you and your mom are doing. Take care Sandra