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This is such sad news. I never met Bucky, but those of us here who had the pleasure of knowing her in cyberspace will miss her terribly. She was truly a special lady. My heartfelt sympathy to her friends and family. Sue

(((Shirley))), this is such a lovely post of remembrance for your dear Randy. Happy Birthday, Randy!!! Hugs, sue

Keep that great news and that great smile coming... Hugs, Sue

(((Peggy))), You are certainly not forgotten. It's good to see you on Facebook too. Keep in touch . Know that I'm thinking of you too. Hugs, Sue

Val, I oftentimes have to wonder who decides and how it is decided what is NORMAL in the grieving process. I myself have found comfort in knowing that I'm not alone in my pain and grief at this point ( nearly 3 1/2 years) after I have lost my husband. I think grief is like anything else, there are no two set of circumstances alike. There are various reasons why some people recover and move on faster than others. I guess I am one of the slow ones, but I think I know why and it has nothing to do with a mental problem. Mine has to do with my own individual set of circumstances and where I was in life before Mike's death. I was left with no job, no money, severe health problems of my own , financial worries, etc. etc... I'm just using this is an example . I'm sure others have their own set of circumstances, but I do believe it helps to move on if you have all the tools and circumstances to do so. I resent someone telling me I shouldn't be grieving or not moving on fast enough. Guess this is a sensitive subject with me. Thanks , Val. Yes, this hits me the wrong way too. Hugs, Sue

Hi Jen, As we know, there are no two cancer cases that are alike. I'm not sure anyone here can answer your questions. Guess you will have to see what doctors there finally conclude. Mike had a recurrence of his cancer after 3 years, but it was a recurrence. His was nsclc. Hopefully, your dad has doctors that you can trust and you will have to let them sort it out and give you the final diagnosis and treatment plan. Just know that my prayers continue for your dad and your family. Hugs, Sue

(((Michelle))), I was caregiver to my husband and as much as I loved him there were days that were hard to get through. He seemed to never consider how hard it must be for me and he seemed very insensitive and demanding. I know with my husband, a part was him just trying to deal with what he was going through and a BIG part of it was due to steroids. Is your husband, by chance , on prednisone or any other steroid? They will turn the kindest of humans into someone you've never met. They can make them very aggressive , insensitive and demanding . My husband knew it was the meds and he would oftentimes apologize for snapping at me or demanding so much.. It's just a thought. Even if this is not the case, this is such an emotional roller coaster for all involved. Many of us do understand and I hope writing about it has helped. Hugs, Sue

I would probably be timid , buy the donuts and toss them when I got home. Lord knows what goes on with food we get, no matter where it comes from. Don't think I want to know..

Hugs sure help.. Here's some back to all of you who could use one.... ((((( all my lcsc friends )))))

Maybe a 4.. sometimes , I feel like I'm drowning . I can't forsee a better future. Money is running out, I have lots of debt , my health isn't good and I have no health insurance. no job, I'm heartbroken and lost without the love of my life, whom I lost 3 years ago and now I'm watching my mom fight this disease. What a whiner, I am.. I do need to make a list of all I am grateful for and see if I can't boost that 4 up a bit. Sue

How did I miss this? Anyway, I'm here now doing a late happy dance.... Great news.. Hugs, Sue

This is Good news.. Peace of mind is worth everything.. Glad to hear the outcome, Barb.

Jen, I am so happy to read this news. I will keep the prayers going up for your dad. Please keep us posted as to the outcome on Thursday. Hugs, Sue

Keeping your Dad in my prayers. Keep us updated. Hugs, Sue

Wow!!! This is awesome news!!! Thanks for sharing it , Lily. Hugs, Sue

My heartfelt sympathy to Deanne. I'm just so sorry for your loss. I will never forget how you fought for him to get Tarceva . God Bless. Hugs, Sue

(((Nick))), a treasure from your mom just for you... priceless. Hugs, Sue

Denise, I just want you to know that Viv will be in my prayers. Hugs, Sue

(((Jen))), hang in there until you know if you have something to be concerned about. Like others have said , it can have other causes. I will keep your dad in my prayers. Hugs, Sue

OOOPs, Ginny, I just realized you said that you planned NOT to tell her about this place until she asks. Guess I just didn't see the NOT. At least you know we are here , if she decides support might help. Hugs, Sue

(((Ginny))), I'm so sorry to learn of your friend's diagnosis. I will certainly keep her in my prayers. Hope you can get her to come to this site so she can have every advantage . As we all know, it's a god send to have input from others who are coping with the same diagnosis and undergoing the same treatment. Please let her know that there are prayers going up for her from here in Virginia. Hugs to you both. Hugs, Sue

Wow, what an inspiration you are. Very cool pics. Sue

This is great news, Annette!!! Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you go through the other side. Keep us informed. Hugs, Sue

WONDERFUL NEWS, Tammy, I've been looking for this update and was looking in all the wrong places. How wonderful that I found it here.. in GOOD NEWS ,where words like BENIGN are music to the ears. Hope you are feeling better soon. Keep in touch.. Hugs, Sue