Artloft Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 On tuesday september 20, 2005 at 1:45 pm elizabeth entered the spiritual realm. She had been at the hospital due to hurricane rita. Her health had been declining since Friday. We had a 24/7 watch on her. She never lost consciousness, which made it difficult for she kept telling me she was afraid. Of what I would ask but she would not say. When I arrived at the hospital I saw her worsenned condition. I could feel her spirit trapped inside her body. I picked up the cellular phone and called my sister. I asked her to read Psalm 23 slowly and softly. I held the phone to Beth's ear while I held her hands standing close to her. She satrted breathing faster, I kept telling her that the angels where there to take her home. As my sister finished the sinners prayer, beth exhaled, I felt her spirit release peacefully from her body, her eyes closed. I came to the LCSC forum a coupleof months ago asking for help, I felt a bit burdenned about taking care of her. It was a difficult battle. Now I must go back to my routines . I hope I can come back ehre for help, I feel I might need it. I wrote the following forher obituary: elizabeth maluf 3/20/1956 - 9/20/2005 The universe has gained a shining, bright star with your arrival to heaven. You lived with grace and courage until your very last breath And though we will miss your charm, sweet disposition and golden smile Our hearts are at peace knowing You are now dancing with the angels Your soul is free to grace the heavens And you will live in our hearts and beautiful memories always for Love is stronger than death Goodnight, sweet dreams.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaffie Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 Sooo sorry Elizabeth's passing was not an easy one, that is so difficult for those left behind. Know that she is at peace now and no longer afraid but resting comforably with the loved ones who went before her. Kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jorja Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 I am so sorry for your loss. How difficult it must have been. Just know that she is in a better place, free from any pain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 We offer our sincere condolences and will hold you in prayer. We hope you find peace in warm memories as the difficlt ones fade. Sincerely, Pat and Brian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 I am so sorry for your loss. Please come back to this site for any and all help we can give you. My sincere condolences. gail p-m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 friend, You are welcome to come here anytime to join all of us in our losses. We understand as well as anyone. I know how hard all of this has been on you. You have been a good friend to Elizabeth, trying your hardest to do what was right for her. I also join you in releasing her soul to heaven. Cindi o'h Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 I remember your earlier posts...I am glad she has found peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 I am so sorry that your friend passed. You were a wonderful friend to take care of her like you did. I could only imagine how difficult this must have been for you to watch her deteriorate. But her final passing was so sweet as you were there with her and your sister read the 23rd psalm. She knew it was time to let go. I know you will miss your friend but you also know that she was suffering and now is at peace. Please take care of yourself...she was blessed to have you. What would she have done without your help? My sincere condolences to her family and friends. Keep the good memories of her in your heart and there she will always live on. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nushka Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 I too, am sorry for your loss. Prayers are being said for you and for her spirit. May you find peace and comfort in the times ahead. Nina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LynneH Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 I am so sorry to hear about Elizabeth. She had a wonderful friend in you. You made her life so much richer at a time when she really needed it. Take care of yourself and try to remember the joys of Elizabeth and her friendship, Lynne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 I am so sorry to here of Elizabeth's passing. The obituary you wrote for her is just beautiful. May God be with you and everyone that was close to her to give you strength in the days ahead. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Artloft Posted September 25, 2005 Author Share Posted September 25, 2005 I'm very grateful for all the support. I came here when I was burdenned and I know that when I feel sad about her loss and angry about loosing her at such a young age, I can read all of your stories and feel that I am not alone. I recently found out with my mother that my grandfather whom I had never met had also died of lung cancer at the age of 43. I hope to continue being part of this community in their memories to offer support to others who might need it. thanks ,thanks, thanks much love and peace to eveyone, alena Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 Hi Alena, If your biological mother and grandfather died of LC, that may be a reason for you to get a CT, just to make sure everything is clear. Remember, anything that is caught early enough is curable. This is just a suggestion as DNA could have effects on immediate family. You should do this just as a precaution. My husband Joel who was diagnoised with early stage LC found out that his biological father died of LC and he had stopped smoking for over 25 years. You may want to check out LC in the News in the forum section of message boards. There are 2 articles that was just posted today which you may be interested in reading. One is "Children with parent of LC" and "CT scans may prevent 1000 of LC" Take care, Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 So sorry to hear of Elizabeth's passing. Thanks for letting us know. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Yes, indeed -- please do come and participate, and let us know how we may help you. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 So very sorry for your loss. I'll be saying prayers that God will help you through this difficult time. Please know that there are many here that are very good listeners, should you need to talk! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilyjohn Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 I am so very sorry for your loss. It is never easy losing someone you care for but knowing they are frightened makes it much worse. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Your friend was truly blessed to have you at her side. Lillian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted September 26, 2005 Share Posted September 26, 2005 Sorry for the loss of you friend you are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharyn Posted September 26, 2005 Share Posted September 26, 2005 I am so sorry for your loss. The words you wrote touched my soul. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma's kid Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 Keeping you in prayer..blessings Libby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted October 16, 2005 Share Posted October 16, 2005 My condolences and very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 your post was beautiful and heartbreaking. what a good partner you were to elizabeth when she needed you. I pray for peace and healing for you. do come back as much as you need to. it's hard for me to watch people go through this, but I am so deeply moved and grateful for the opportunity to support you in any way I can. xoxo amie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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