KHK2971 Posted December 8, 2003 Share Posted December 8, 2003 All - I just wanted to let you know that two weeks ago today my Dad passed away. He died in my arms at the hospital. He was admitted the Friday before with what seemed to be an infection, weakness and trouble breathing and he just couldn't beat it this time. He died peacefully and I thank God for that. He fought so hard. It's been so tough on my Mom and I...we loved him dearly and now he is gone. He was so brave through everything and it's so unfair that he lost his battle at just 59 years of age. There was so much living left to do and time that we three deserved together. I don't know how people pick up and find the strength to go on. We had his funeral Wednesday, November 26 and it was a beautiful service - a real tribute to my Dad. Several friends spoke and there was an outpouring of love from so many. I was able to speak as well, and that has helped me a great deal. I want to thank you all for your support and advice over the last 7 months. You are truly a blessing in my life. I will keep you all in my prayers. God bless us all, Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eileen Posted December 8, 2003 Share Posted December 8, 2003 so very sorry on the loss of your dear Dad my deepest condolences to you and your family in sympathy, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MO_Sugar Posted December 8, 2003 Share Posted December 8, 2003 Words can not express the sorrow that I feel for your family right now. God Bless you all, MO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirleyb Posted December 8, 2003 Share Posted December 8, 2003 I am so sorry to hear about your father. It is so hard when we lose those we love so dearly. Please stick around here. It has been my life line since Randy died back in August. I have found everyone here to be such help in my grieving process. I realize that we all do it differently, but stick around. I am praying for you and your mother and the rest of your extended family. I know how hard it can be. Again, I am so sorry. Much love, Shirley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelliemacs Posted December 8, 2003 Share Posted December 8, 2003 I am so saddened to hear this news. I know the pain you have in your heart. I don't know how to tell you to pick up and go forward. You just have to do it somehow. Someday soon the pain will ease. I am so very sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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karen335 Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Kelly, Sending condolences for the loss of your father. Prays for you and your mom... God Bless Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Sorry for your loss. Please keep in touch when you need to talk or vent. It is a tough time now and if you need support or etc.. stop in and we are here for you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 So sorry to hear of your fathers passing. My deepest sympathy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Kelly, so sorry you have lost your dad. My prayers are with you and your family. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debi Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Am so sorry to hear.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 So sorry to hear of your loss, Kelly. Many of us here have experienced loss of a loved one to this horrible disease. This wonderful group of understanding people have helped me so much since my husband's death nearly a year ago. Someone is always here to listen when you need an ear, give advice when you need a voice and always give hugs when you need love! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna D Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Kelly, I am so sorry about you father. My prayers are with you and yours. Stay in touch, you will find that the people here are so wonderful at this difficult time. Dona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marta Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Hey there sis... I just thought that I would post my formal condolences for your daddy. Of course, you are in my thoughts constantly. Love Laura Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest canuckwebgrrl Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Kelly, I'm very sorry you lost your Dad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debaroo Posted December 9, 2003 Share Posted December 9, 2003 Kelly, I am so sorry for your loss, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers...Deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karma1976 Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 Kelly I am so sorry to hear. I lost my dad in may at the age of 58. if you need anything please let me know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiny Posted December 15, 2003 Share Posted December 15, 2003 Kelly I'm so very sorry for the passing of your dad, but am glad that he went peacefully and is now out of the clutches of this beastly disease. I know your heart is wrenched and that the holidays will be hard. Please accept my condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KHK2971 Posted December 29, 2003 Author Share Posted December 29, 2003 All - Thank you so much for all the kind messages on the loss of my Dad. I really appreciate your support over the last 7 months. The holidays were really tough on us. Christmas Eve was the one month anniversary of Dad's death. We tried to be strong and celebrate in our own way, but there was a huge void in our hearts....I don't think that void will be filled forever. I know the holidays were challenging for all of us, and I said a prayer that God would send us all peace. Take care & thanks again, Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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