Hi Grace,
I am very glad to hear you are doing better. I, as well as everyone else on here can understand completely what you are going through. It is normal, it sucks but it is normal.
Brad did not have Tarceva to my knowledge but I had been reading about that as well as a zillion other options out there and recall reading something about tingling. I have to see if I saved that particular thing or not. I think as you say, the combination of all those horrible drugs in the system fighting an even more horrible disease wreak havoc on a person. And not everyone has the same reaction so.. God we need a cure yesterday!!!!!
As for the treatment regime Brad did have, I am not really sure what the drugs were. I do know he was on massive doses daily for a while. Other than the nausea which was never completely aleviated with the anti~pukes as he called them, he was just completely fatigued 24/7 but continued to work most days. I did notice the chemo~brain syndrome from time to time as he would be forgetful which was never an issue with him before the cancer. We found humour in that, though, which was, along with nothing but a positive attitude was what he needed and all he ever asked for.
Anyway, just very glad to know you are doing better. I have you and your family in my prayers every day...
Hugs and loads of positive thoughts my dear!
Love
Chris