mitzu Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 Unfortunately, this pregnancy wasn't meant to be. I had a miscarriage yesterday and a very painful D&C. Back to square one. It's very emotionally draining. Can others share similar experiences? Thank you all for your support. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I'm so sorry, mitzu. So many prayers and hugs for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michelepal Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I so sorry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I am so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kreed70 Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I am so so sorry for your loss of precious life. This website has helped people in many situations. I hope that you find it helpful. http://www.troubledwith.com/Web/groups/ ... 008591.cfm Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 Prayers and Sympathies. I can imagine how difficult this is. Comfort for the Family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I'm soooo sorry. I had a miscarriage and then had a healthy baby about 18 months later. I understand what you are going through. Prayers for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Littlegirl Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 Mitzu - I am so sorry! I know this is a tough time for you. I can say I've been there myself. The first time I was pregnant I had a miscarriage myself. It was hard. 11 months later I gave birth to a baby girl. She came a month early so we were not really prepared. She was also born with a cleft lip. My stepgrandmother (only grandmother I had ever known) also passed away a few days after my daughters birth. I remember one of those early days where I was grieving for the loss of my grandmother, probably a bit postpartum depression as well, and I just wondered why God could not let me have the first baby I was pregnant with and instead I ended up with a baby with a birth defect. I had myself a good cry then realized maybe I was better off, and perhaps God was on my side. Maybe the first baby I was pregnant with would have been born with more problems than the precious baby God had just given me. We did have to go through a couple surgeries but my daughters cleft lip was minor compared to some we have seen. Sorry I began to ramble. You will be a mother someday. And though the pain in your heart is overwhelming right now, the day will come when it will be a distant memory. Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TracyD Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 Oh Mitzu, I'm so sorry. Unfortunately I was there once, twelve years ago. The part that stuck with me most was how much I loved that little baby, even though I only carried it for twelve weeks. Almost one year to the day I went on to have a beautiful baby girl. Please take the time to grieve for your baby. From the moment you find out you're pregnant you love the baby. When you experience a miscarriage you experience a death, and that loss needs to be grieved over like any other. You will get past it, and you will go on to have a beautiful little baby. Prayers for you. Tracy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharonjo Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 Mitzu, I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying that God will give you peace and comfort. God Bless, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alisa Posted November 1, 2006 Share Posted November 1, 2006 I'm so sorry for your loss. I had 2 tubal pregnancies before being blessed with twins (IVF). And as much as the tubals hurt (physically and emotionally), I realize had that not happened, I would not have had my precious sons that I have now. Take care and I look forward to better news from you in the near future! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tkelley Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 I am so sorry for your loss. Yes, I can relate. I had 2 miscarriages after having my son but keep hope, I am posting a pic of my new baby girl. It is a difficult and painful loss, take time to mourn. Just know that better days are ahead. I know that when the doctor placed my new daughter in my arms I knew that this was the angel that God wanted me to have. I think of my two miscarried babies as angels that for some reason I was meant to carry if just for a little while. Take care of yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 I am so sorry I had two recent miscarriages from IVF, but I was no more than 1-2 weeks along. In time I hope you have an easy healthy pregnancy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jang Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage also. Happy to say that a year later I had my daughter Erin. I know it's a very hard, emotional time for you, but it will get better. Just take care of yourself! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 My fourth pregnancy ended in a miscarriage and of course, i had to have the DNC. Although I had had 3 children already, it was still very tough and I went into a bit of a depression. Got pregnant a few months later and 4th child is 20 years old now. ((I've heard it said that a DNC really cleans you out and for some reason, achieving a pregnancy is a bit easier after one -- don't know if this is a wives' tale or not but it worked for me since it usually took me a year plus to get pregnant. I'm so sorry for you but hang in there. gail p-m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
francesbean Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 My mom had four miscarriages. I'm sorry Mitzu. *hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trish2418 Posted November 2, 2006 Share Posted November 2, 2006 So sorry for your loss. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 Mitzu, you really are not alone as it seems many women have miscarriages with their first. I don't know why this happens but it happens ALOT!! That doesn't make it any easier. I am so sorry as I know how excited you were. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted November 3, 2006 Share Posted November 3, 2006 So very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted November 4, 2006 Share Posted November 4, 2006 Dear Mitzu, yes I can identify - I had seven. It will be ok. It happens for a reason. Take care of yourself, keep your chin up, and look forward to the one that will come later and be healthy and beautiful! Love, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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