LTich Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 Sorry I haven't posted in so long. So much has happened over the last 6 months. My Father called a short while ago to let me know that my Mom is very near the end of her battle with cancer. It has consumed her brain & she can no longer speak. Hospice has been caring for her around the clock at home so she can die in peace. My sister is flying in from Orlando this weekend & we are driving up (Illinois) to see Mom Friday afternoon. We actually planned the trip a few weeks ago & I believe in my heart that Mom is holding out until I can be by her side. My Dad is crushed because Mom is his entire world. They have been married 45 wonderful years. I think he believed she would beat this until a few weeks ago even though the doctors didn't offer any hope from the beginning. Mom is the center of my entire family & this will be devastating for us all to go through. I know she is my rock & I will be lost without her. I couldn't have asked for a better Mom. I wanted to thank everyone for all the wonderful advice, love & support throughout our journey. Although she is losing the battle, she won the war because she has lived her life to the fullest over the past year. We have been very blessed to have this special time with Mom. Please send your thoughts & prayers our way. We need all we can get to help us through this very tough time. Lisa ----------------------------------------------- My Mom passed away early yesterday morning (March 1st) about 6:20 AM in her sleep. She went the way she wanted to go. I am devastated that I didn't get to be by her side but, it really was a blessing because she wasn't afraid or in any pain. None of us thought she would go so quickly but, my Mom was a special lady & a lady always knows when it's time to leave. My Dad came in just after she passed & stayed with her until the funeral director came. He laid next to her & held her for two hours saying his special good-bye to Mom. They shared something so precious & knew a secret recipe to making a marriage last, an ingredient that illudes so many of us. It has been the absolute hardest day of my life & the worst was telling my children, one by one, as they returned home from school. It was especially hard for Ethan (5) because he knows what death is but doesn't grasp it completely. He kept asking through tears why he can't see his Grandma anymore. I wish I could help him to understand. We are still planning on leaving tomorrow to help with funeral arrangements and be there to comfort Daddy. I thank you all for the support & prayers. It is deeply appreciated. with love, Lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztweb Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 I am so, so sorry to read your post. I pray that you find peace at this time. I have no other words. Blessings, Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 It's been a while since I viewed you website, Lisa. Each time I do, it takes my breath away. What a loving, moving tribute. I am sorry to hear the update about your mom. You will be in our prayers in this house that comfort and peace will be in the days ahead for you and your whole family. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larry Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 So sorry you must go through this and i can honestly say i know how you feel. My wife and i were married almost 45 year's as we only missed it by about 6 month's.All i have left to say is GOD's speed...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 Lisa, I'm so sorry that your family is at this point. Let your Mom know that she is wrapped in all of our prayers. You are too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twodogs Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 Lisa, So sorry to hear this about your Mom. Our prayers for her and for you and your family. John Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 Lisa, Sending many, many prayers for you and your family. Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamasbabygirl Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 I am so very sorry you guys are at this point. May there still be a few small blessings for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welthy Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 Lisa, So very sorry to hear this news. May God give you and your family strength to get through. Welthy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trish2418 Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 I'm saying many prayers for all of you. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharonjo Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 Lisa, I am praying for you and your family at this very difficult time. Your website is a beautiful tribute to all who are touched by this horrific disease. Thank you for all your hard work and effort in promoting a cure. God Bless You, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 Dear Lisa I am so very, very sorry to read your update today. My prayers, sympathies and condolences to you and your family. We will continue to be here for you. Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastCoastLadi Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 Lisa, I am so sorry about your mom, I know how difficult it must of been for you to tell your children. I also wasn't by my husbands' side when he passed away last week, but his oncologist told me something what was very comforting and valuable to how my husband passed. He told me that if I go home and Carlton passes away and I am not there to not feel guilty. He said that he has seen it happen alot, even the nurses told me the same thing. This helped me alot when Carlton died because, I don't think I would of been able to function at all, if I didn't know that. Lisa, my prayers are going out to you, your dad and family this evening... Grace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted March 2, 2007 Share Posted March 2, 2007 Lisa, I'm so very, very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEA Posted March 3, 2007 Share Posted March 3, 2007 Lisa, Sending my condolences on the loss of your Mom. Prayers for strength, comfort, and peace in the days ahead. Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztweb Posted March 3, 2007 Share Posted March 3, 2007 Lisa, I am so, so sorry. Again, I have no words, but I want you to know I am saying a special prayer for you, your family, your mama, and your daddy. May you each know God's peace, be guided by His will, and may eternal rest be granted unto your mom, and may God's perpetual light shine upon her always. Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mary colleen Posted March 3, 2007 Share Posted March 3, 2007 Bless you. She is fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LISABETH23 Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR MOM. YOUR FAMILY WILL BE IN OUR PRAYERS, AND WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted March 4, 2007 Share Posted March 4, 2007 I am sorry you weren't able to be with your mom. My condolences to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lc46 Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 I'm so sorry for your loss. Peace be with you and your family. Dar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danielle30 Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom. You are in my prayers. -Danielle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laban Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 Lisa, She is in a better place. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Laurie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hockeyma Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 Sorry about your mother. She is in no pain now. All the best to you and your family. Heather Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystleshoe Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 lisa I am so sorry. There are no words to stop the pain. My mom passed away from sclc almost 2 months ago so I am feeling your pain today. There are tons of prayers being sent your way, Cheryl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LTich Posted March 7, 2007 Author Share Posted March 7, 2007 I just arrived home a few hours ago. I wanted to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart for all the thoughts & prayers. I can't even begin to tell you how much it means to me & my family. Prayers & thoughtfulness of others are the only thing that got us through the past 6 or so days. During the visitation, I realized a very special gift that Mom gave to us. We got to see so many beloved family members & dear friends. Some of whom we haven't seen in 20 or more years. Several of my old high school friends that I had lost touch with & even their parents showed up to extend their sympathies & pay their respects to my Mother. My Mom touched so many lives, far more than I realized. People filed past the casket for 6 hours straight & they were still showing up as it was time to go. The guest book has several hundred signatures in it. At least 100 of her coworkers showed up as well. It was an incredible tribute which spoke volumes about my Mom. She was a super coworker, super Mom & super Wife that touched so many lives. She will live on in the hearts of many. I am so proud to have her blood in me. Thanks again, Lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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