DeanCarl Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 I've said before I have few regrets about the things I've done and said in my life. I do, however, have regrets over things I didn't do or didn't say. Too often I've lost the chance to let folks know how much they, and the way they live their lives, have meant to me. The events of the last few days here have served, once again, to drive home the lesson that if I have something to say to someone, get it said. Maybe I learned it this time. -------------------------------------------------------------------- Unspoken C2004 by Dean C. Shaffer I sit tonight in shades of sorrow, Sleep a comfort not to be. Friends now gone I wish I’d known, Much better than time did allow. Words I would have spoke aloud, Had the future been more clear. Words in praise of courage deep, Of spirit not to be denied. But in silence each day passed, Another chance forever gone. Thinking that on morning’s sun, Then would be the time to speak. But morning swept by light of wing, And afternoon did follow close. Then so soon did evening fall, And words gave way to quiet sleep. And then one morning, fateful dawn, A light now faded from this world. In shock I heard the message there, And knew I’d waited much too long, Yes, time I thought I had to speak, Words that welled from deep within. Now words unspoken lay like stone, And ears to hear them now are gone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Cheryl- Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 DeanCarl, That was moving. I know I appreciated hearing your words, and I imagine the family members and friends of those recently lost will as well. Cheryl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilyjohn Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 so true Dean The worse regrets we ever have are for things we didn't do or didn't say. Thank you for putting it into words so wonderfully. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 That was beautiful Mr. Dean Carl. Peace, take care and God Bless. Thanks Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angie Daughter of Bill Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 Dean That was very touching. It is sooooo true. It is good advice. Whether someone is sick or not, if there is something you want to say to them.......do it. You might not get another chance. Thank you for sharing! Angie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhutch1366 Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 Dean Carl, You are a moving and soulful poet. Thank you, MaryAnn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elaine Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 Again, Dean, you are right on. Most all regrets are for things we left unsaid or undone. Elaine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Laura Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 That was beautiful. One thing that I've learned is to DO. So often I get these great ideas, and now I DO them, not just forget them in a few days. If there is anything good to be said about cancer, it sure gives you a new perspective and appreciation for your loved ones and friends. I know that I am a much better person for these bitter-sweet experiences. It has been a joy getting to know you and others through your posts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MO_Sugar Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 Wonderful poem! I have had the same thoughts since my Mother and Father passed away and I DO try and tell people I love them every day. I NEVER end a conversation with my son or daughter without the last words being I love you. Those were the last words I said to my parents and the last words they said to me and they mean SOOOOOOOOOO much now. God Bless, MO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 DEAN, Very well said again as usual.I'm sure most of us feel the same way. FRANK L. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Z_Pacific Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 Dean, Oh So True! God Bless, Howard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa O Posted April 2, 2004 Share Posted April 2, 2004 beautifully written!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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