Guest TonyB Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 Thanks for the message Annie. Thank you for the sweet e-mails too everybody. I'm sorry I didn't answer earlier. I see you guys have your own problems and preocupations which I understand, so I won't take much of your time. Just have to say that Jay is out of ICU and getting better physically, while he's not that well mentally. His mother passed away a week ago, that's all I can say, I mean... I don't know what else to say in a moment like this. I'll come back later with more news. Tina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiny Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 Dear Tina, Thank you, dear friend, for letting us know the devastating news . You are right, there are no adequate words. I'm feeling helpless and angry, even though I know those emotions are useless. Please, please give Jay all the love and support you can and let him know we are thinking of him and praying for strength to endure and recover. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carleen Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 My heart is going out to Jay. I just can't believe how much that sweet boy has to bear at such a young and tender age. I think back to me at 19. It should be filled with happiness and fun. I am so sorry, and am at a loss to say anything that reflects the true sincerity in which I am pained by this news. Please give Jay all my love and affection. Let him know that I am praying fiercely for him. Carleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bessb Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 I cannot believe this, how much can one family bear? My god why hast thou forsaken them? This makes me so sad and angry, why oh why do some people have to bear so much pain in this life and others are untouched? Right now I just cannot deal with this, please pass on our sincere condolences to Jay. It just makes you wonder why, I know there is supposed to be an answer somewhere and I believe in God and have great faith, but this rocks my faith. My heart goes out to these people. Bess B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 Dear Tina, Thank you so much for letting us know what is happening. Let Jay know that he is in our prayers. This is such a tragedy. God bless you, Peg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyB Posted June 11, 2003 Share Posted June 11, 2003 Tina, Oh, poor Jay. No wonder he is not doing well mentally. The emotional strain must be awful on top of all the physical pain he has had. I am truly saddened to hear of the loss of his mother. Thank you, Tina, for letting us know. I was thinking of Jay just today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Tina Please offer my prayers of condolences to Jay. Sue M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Tina, thank you so much for updating us on Jay. We have all been wondering what the status was. It is just too sad that his mother died, just another tragedy in his very young life. How is his dad? And the rest of his family? Please send our love and support to Jay. And please keep us posted from time to time. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandyS Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Oh - our poor guy! Tina - make sure he knows we're all here for him, and we'll do anything we can to help....and give him PLENTY of hugs.... SandyS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mittlers Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Tina, I will definitely keep Jay and his family in my prayers. This poor child has been through more than most people endure in a lifetime. Thanks for the update. Susan M. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anniemac Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Tina..oh, this just breaks my heart. This poor family and this sweet boy. Please let him know that all his friends here are holding him in their hearts and supporting him with their prayers. Annie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debaroo Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Tina, thank you for the update. I just don't know what to say. I hope they are providing grief counseling, or some type of counseling to Jay, and his little sister. I think about him often, and wonder how he is. I just don't know what to say...this is so much for ANYONE to handle, no matter regardless of their age, but he is so young...I have all these feelings right now, and am completely at a loss for words. Please let Jay know that we all care, and are worried for him. Thank you , Deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathy Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Dear Tina, I cant say anything that hasnt already been said..Please tell Jay we are here if he needs us. I wish there was something I could do.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marta Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Tina, Send our love to Jay...we will be keeping him in our prayers... The pain of all of this seems unbearable..Keep us posted Laura Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DaveG Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Tina: So sorry to hear about Jay's mother. Tell Jay to hang in there as he has 400+ friends just waiting to hear from him personally. In the meantimes, tell him that 400+ people are sending a big cyberhug his way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karma1976 Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 I am so so sorry to hear about his mom, i can not believe that!!!!!! Let jay know we are all thinking of him!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deanna M. Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Oh how sad. My heart breaks for Jay and his family right now. It just doesn't seem fair. I am praying for them. Please send hime love, hugs and prayers from all of us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TonyB Posted June 12, 2003 Share Posted June 12, 2003 Hi, Thanks for all your support everybody. Jay is doing better (like I said, physically) his head and spleen are a lot better. He's starting to walk around. He has a broken leg (his ankle) but he doesn't have a cast. I don't know how to explain it cause my english is not that great, but it's some sort of boot of a really soft material... anyway, he limps, but he can walk with it. His shoulder is better too and he might be out in a week. He's still very weak and of course, very depressed. He will be getting counseling once he's out. His dad is totally devastated, he spends day and night with Jay. His little sister is staying with their grandmother. It's hard to talk to Jay right now, his thoughts are always somewhere else and I understand that. I'll have to give him a lot of time, but I just miss old Jay. I'll give him all your messages. I'm sure he'll appreciate them. Well, I'll go now but I will keep you informed. Love, Tina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted June 13, 2003 Share Posted June 13, 2003 Tina, thanks for the recent update on Jay. Your English is very good, so don't worry about that. It is all so sad. Please do keep us posted. Many thanks for your efforts and your obvious caring for Jay. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathyr Posted June 13, 2003 Share Posted June 13, 2003 My goodness, what can anyone do to possibly make this better? We all feel such a loss I can't imagine how our Jay can cope with this latest tragedy, but he must. Too many people love him and are rooting for him. He is so lucky to have such good friends! Stay strong, Jay. It will get better. Life will go on. Just know that lots of people love you very much! Cathyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosanne Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 Tony, Thanks for the update on Jay. It must be terrible for him and his family. I will say extra prayers for them. Rosanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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