I agree with Dave. Once a loved one passes, it doesn't mean the fight is over. It has been almost a year since my father passed, and I still come here and feel/ache with the people here and feel everyone is my friend/comadre. Thanks Rick and Katie, you are very special. Mirrell
p.s. my heart broke all over again when i read Katies post, because I knew she and you were fighting as I had fought before.