Hi Andrea,
Sorry to hear about your friend's diagnosis. I was also diagnosed IIIB, with hilar node involvement, no effusion (although I developed a pleural effusion during treatment). I started with carbo/taxol, added radiation 6 weeks into treatment, and then another 3 months of taxotere following radiation. I'm now NED and have been taking Tarceva for 15 months. Hope treatment goes as smoothly for your friend. Keep us posted.
Trish