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Vespa, Thank you so much. I know how great they are from when they cared for my mom. But they were called in so late, she died the 2nd day they were there. That is how we saw it for us. The nurse who came today was wonderful and informative. We are going to sign up tomorrow. This service came highly recommended from a dear friend who used their services. Barb

Congrats to you and your family, no better Thanksgiving gift than a new baby. Happy Birthday, Gavin! We have a Gavin in our family he is 5 yrs. old. My brother was born on Thanksgiving night 47 years ago, Mom and Dad had to leave right as she was ready to serve pie. That is what I am told anyway, I was only 4 1/2! Barb

Welthy, I don't think you have two sets of twins Barb

Nyka, good one :lo I drink a glass of milk every morning. Barb

I am going to let Kasey, my dog, not our friend here! sit in my lap whenever she wants to. She may get a cheesey kong while Hospice is here. Barb

I am so grateful that today, when we received such horrible news, is a sunny, cloudfree day. I can feel the love of Jesus so well today. It is almost weird, I have not felt that in awhile. I am really, really grateful for all of you. Barb

David, I am so sorry to hear about your dear wife. I pray peace for your family. Barb

Today we met with the onc. and PA. Rod had a chest xray this am, no pneumonia. The Dr. will not do anymore chemo as it would kill Rod. A Hospice person is coming out today, Rod doesn't want to sign up yet but he can't stay awake more than 2 minutes. He was in and out with the Dr. and PA. I know it is his decision, but if he's not awake would it be ok if I sign up for us? I just don't know what is the right thing to do, we need them but Rod should decide. Please pray for a peaceful passing when the time comes. Barb

I recommend a good therapist. If you can find someone who knows about cancer, all the better. Mine is awesome. Last week I was just so down, I was using some colorful words to describe a driver who was rude and she did raise an eyebrow, literally. I don't know what it meant but I didn't care. She didn't either I guess. Anyway, I see her every two weeks. Your ins. rep at the 800 number will tell you exactly what is covered for how long and what you will have to pay. It is worth it. I also take an anti-depressant. Talk to your dr. to decide which one is best for you. It does take a few weeks to go into effect but I find knowing I am doing something helps right away. I am always amazed at how everyone here says something that I have been thinking or feeling about this horrible journey. JB I appreciated that you could rant here and know it is a safe place. I just wish Rod and I could laugh and talk like some of you. He isn't accepting.....stuff. I have been told repeatedly by therapist, and good friend, in the past 4 days that I am not in control, I can't make him do things and I can't make God do what I want. I am trying to let go. How do you let go? When my mom died, I couldn't let go, even when she was gone I wailed to her to stay, into a pillow in another room where I wouldn't freak out my dad. I'm sure this hasn't been that helpful. Barb

Welcome to this place of encouragement. I hope this treatment works great. Barb

Lily I believe you did love math, my daughter teaches math! I don't think you watched soaps at age 5. Barb

Like Randy said, take time for you. It's ok if we cry, you are going to have some rough days, who wouldn't understand that. Being there with your family is going to be very special as is this wonderful new baby. I will pray for you. Barb

Suzy, My husband didn't have postitive results with the first round of 4 chemos.His lung tumor shrunk 33% after the 3rd session, but after the 4th it had grown. He also has mets to his bones so that could be the difference. I wish your sister well. Barb PS I work PT in a dental office, front desk, I love it!

What a smart bunch we are!!! Barb

Tina, I bet your kids were not both born on Apr. 1, or one was a boy? J. Young I can't imagine you wrestling Nyka all sound possible, but I think you didn't yell at Regis Peggy, I don't think you were a cocktail waitress. Barb

xanthic yellow; yellowish for leaves, ok I cheated with google

I only have one daughter, so glad. and a son. I've met Larry the Cable Guy several times. He is the nicest guy. Barb

That was a great story, loved it

red leaves beautiful

I'm glad you are here. I hope everything goes well for your Mom. You are in my prayers. Barb

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I am glad you were with her, I am sure that gave her comfort. My thoughts are with you. Barb

The tiny wieners in bar b que sauce AND the pretty toothpicks to eat them with

in trouble

Jackets we have to put on in the mornings.

And now for guesses, Nyka--I don't think you can wiggle your nose like a bunny, but why would you like entomolgy????? Just not sure Maryanne--I think you are taller than 5' Lillyjohn--I think you do not have 8 grands Randy-- I don't think you played trumpet, maybe.....drums??? Ginny--I don't think you discovered Pat Paulsen. He was goofy wasn't he? Barb