I would just like to add my welcome to you. It is true that some people die rather quickly from this disease, but many others survive and enjoy their lives for years. There are 10 years+ survivors here who have no evidence of disease and started out at a rather gloomy place. So, there is hope...there is hope. Let it be your mantra.
There are some side benfits to having lc too. For instance, I no longer sweat the little things. I used to get all upset when I stepped on dog s--t, but no more. Now I just smile.
If the doctors seem pessimistic, your husband should get a second opinion at a major cancer center.
Don M