rayroy Posted August 1, 2003 Share Posted August 1, 2003 We got a hospice hospital bed today. I think he has called it quits and wants to get the suffering out of the way. It's terrible, but what can we do. He sleeps most of the day, Im afraid the end may be near. Thanks for helping us out during this ordeal. Let's pray dad's suffering is over with soon. Miracles do happen, pray for that too! thanks ray Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carolsdaughter Posted August 1, 2003 Share Posted August 1, 2003 Ray, I am so very sorry. You and your family are definatly in my prayers. Hugs, Shelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Ray, so sorry things have worsened. My prayers are with you, your dad and family. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karen335 Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Ray, My prayers to you and your family. Miracles do happen, all we have to do is ask in Jesus name. God Bless Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terrie Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Ray- Sorry to read that things with your dad are getting worse - he and your family will continue to be in my prayers - Terrie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debaroo Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Ray, you and your Dad and family continue to be in my prayers. Deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Cheryl- Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Ray, What a tough place to be in....I can remember feeling so scared to lose my parents, but scared to see them suffer. I felt guilt because I was torn between wanting their torment to end, as well as mine. I was so very tired from the rollercoaster ride that this disease took me on. I will keep your Dad, you, and your family in my prayers. Cheryl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynn Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Dear Rayroy, Add my prayers to the list...I know this is a very trying and difficult time. Please try to find some peace in knowing that you are doing all you can to help your Dad. You certainly are a devoted and loving son. God bless you and your family. Lynn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rayroy Posted August 2, 2003 Author Share Posted August 2, 2003 Dad still hasn't eaten. He sleeps most of the time. His body seems to be shutting down. At least, it doesn't seem that he has pain. Tomorrow we have to look at funeral homes and strat planning the services. The hospice nurse ssaid he may last days or a couple of weeks. Since he is not eating or drinking it is not good. I think dad's body is tired, he is mentally tired. I think he wants some peace and quiet now. He has lived the past 2 months for us. We have told him to eat this and drink that. He has tried, with all his might but to no avail. He is a fighter, that's how he will always be to me until his last breath. Prayers to everyone out there who is still fighting this horrible disease. I still believe with passion, love, and luck you and your love ones can get better!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathy Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Dear Ray, I will be praying for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Ray, My heart goes out to you and your family and of course my prayers. May God give you strength to carry on. You are a wonderful son. Blessings to you, Peg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norme Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Rayroy, So so sorry for you and your family, but am relieved to know that your dad will not suffer anymore. This is a time of peace, a time to sit at his bedside and hold his hand. A time to think beautiful thoughts of your dad past life. All the fun times you had with him.. You are bringing back beautiful memories to me of my dad. This is how i handled it when it got to this final point. A very peaceful sleep. God be with your father, you and your family right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyd Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Ray, Norme said it so perfectly. Have someone at your Dad's side all the time, talk to him, tell him you love him, thank him for a wonderful life. I will remember you and your family in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karen335 Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Ray, My prayers to you and your family. God Bless you and your family, praying for a "CURE" Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tmaizeinlv Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 You and your family are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carol Lee S Posted August 3, 2003 Share Posted August 3, 2003 Ray, My prayers are with you, have someone stay by his side and peace will be with you. I was at Gene's side when he passed and peace was so apparant. May God bless you your Dad and all your family. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiny Posted August 3, 2003 Share Posted August 3, 2003 Ray- Thinking of you and all your family at this hard time. You know that you've all fought the good fight...you gave it your best. Praying for strength and God's grace for you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karma1976 Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 rayroy I am soo soo sorry to hear about your dad! I am here if you need me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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