Mary Mac Posted September 28, 2007 Share Posted September 28, 2007 Hi Everyone, I had a membership here, but I lost the acces to the computer I was using. My Name on that I think was Alliboo. My Boyfriend was diagnosed over a year ago with NSCLC. He passed away this past April 19th. I wanted to get back with everybody to say Thank You for the enormous amount of emotional support that I got here. I'm still having problems dealing with the grief. But I have comfort in knowing he is not in pain anymore. A church near me has national program called "Griefshare" It's helped some. So Again Thank You All, Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelley (MLC) Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 Hi Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you have found a group at the Church to help you through this and we are always ready to listen here. Keep checking in. Shelley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 Mary, Very sorry for you loss but glad you are involved in a support group. Let's us know how (I do remember) you are doing. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 I remember you Aliboo. It is hard Mary but we trudge on knowing that some day in the presence of God... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 I remember you too!!!! I am so sorry. Glad to know you now as Mary! Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Judy-OK Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 Mary ... so sorry for you loss. I remember your posts also. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
recce101 Posted September 29, 2007 Share Posted September 29, 2007 Hi, Mary, I remember you too. I did a quick search and see you had 24 posts under Aliboo. Maybe one of the moderators could join the two if you're interested -- not sure how that works. But welcome back! Aloha, Ned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamataca Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your boyfriend. I am very impressed with you--finding a group to go to and all. Take good care of yourself, and keep us posted! Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sis Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 Mary, Yes..I remember you too. I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your boyfriend. Sending prayers your way. Ellie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 I am so sorry for the loss of your boyfriend. So glad you stopped by to let us know. We are always here for you. I am sure the Church grief support has been a blessing for you. Peace be with you. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I do remember your posts as Aliboo. I am glad you are back. Please let us know how we can help... Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SBeth Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 Dear Mary, I tried numerous times to reach you with no response, now I know why. I am located here in Cincinnati also. I am so very sorry for your loss, if there is anything I can do for you please let me know. There are many people here at LCSC that can continue to help you going forward and healing. Please let me know if I can be one of those people. Much peace, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharonjo Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 Mary, I'm so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, and ask God to give you strength and comfort in the weeks and months ahead. God Bless, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 Mary, I remember you also. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Know that we are here for you. God Bless. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teriw Posted September 30, 2007 Share Posted September 30, 2007 Mary, I'm glad you've found some help from Grief Share (I literally just picked up a brochure yesterday), and I'm glad you're back here. There's so much support from people who understand. Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mary Mac Posted October 1, 2007 Author Share Posted October 1, 2007 Thank You All for your replies. Sorry it took so long to get back here. several other people in my Giefshare group have lost some one to LC. The last few days of his life was very challenging for me. I had his whole family there telling what to/not do. I'm deaf. There was a lot of miscommunication. They were angry and took it out on me. They told me it was my fault, because they wanted to take him home. They thought he didn't want to go because of me. They thought they could get better care fore him somewhere else. The thing is that when he was diagnosed it was already too late. I know people do things to lash out at others when they are hurt. So I forgive them. I pray for them everyday.The only reason they let me stay there until the end was because Van wanted me there. It took everything I had to get through that. But he was sufffering much, much more. The night before he died, Van and I and God shared a very spiritual expeience. His family didn't have that because they kept trying to fight it. It was time for him to go home to heaven. So I feel very lucky and special to have that beautiful expeience. It stregnthed my faith in God. The hospice Nurses helped me with that. They knew what I was going through. It hurt so bad to see him in so much pain, and I coud do nothing about it. So I just prayed. So Again thank you all, Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 I too rememebr you!!! I'm sorry for your loss and that your last days were rough ones. We'll continue to be here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztweb Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. I do remember you being here before. Please know you are in our hearts and in our prayers. Blessings, Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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