tnmynatt Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 I know you'll get tired of my complaining and I'm not very supportive these days...it's just hard. This is a difficult time between St. Patrick's Day, Easter and then April 16th (Easter 2 years ago). Tomorrow is the 2nd anniversary of Charlie's purchase of Rachel's dream car for her--he road 3 hrs. with her to buy it and then drove the 3 hrs. back stopping at the oncologist's office on the way back. Then with Easter coming up and then April 16th--exactly a month from today...I hope it somehow gets easier. Thank God I have prayer, friends/family and you'll. You'll are the best! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 I will always remember Charlie at Easter time, Tina.......especially April 16 since that is my anniversary. You've had so much in such a short time, Tina......just very sorry. Will be thinking of you this next month ~ with prayers too. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leela Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 (((Tina))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Tina, we are here for you. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 (((Tina))), Never feel you have to apologize for posting your feelings. You are among friends who understand and who care. I will never forget this time 2 years ago, Tina. You and I were going through a lot of the same . I lost Mike March 2nd and you Charlie on April 16th. You have had even more heartache and loss since then. God Bless you and know that my prayers are with you and the girls. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 I have never lost a spouse, but I can relate to the difficult times and memory dates. I have one coming up too and I dread these days. (((((((((TINA)))))))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztweb Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Tina, Stay strong girl! You always do...thanks for coming to us. Hopefully we can help...you are so, so supportive of others, and need to know how much we appreciate you here. You are NOT a complainer! Stay strong! Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Sending love your way Tina. You have too much going on for one person Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SBeth Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Tina, I'll be thinking of you and saying a few extra prayers that the days/weeks ahead pass by easily for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 I'm thinking of you, Tina. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Hugs and Prayers and just great thoughts. Think of the good times and not the bad times Tina. IT helps me some times! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueeye Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 Tina, my thoughts are with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 Tina- It's hard when you lose someone around a holiday -- you can't somehow trick yourself into letting the day get by you. I hope you get through the days ahead ok-- thinking of you. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teriw Posted March 18, 2008 Share Posted March 18, 2008 (((Tina))) I know it's so difficult when certain days are so close together and bring back so many different types of memories. Sometimes I feel like I'm being flung around all of the years we had together -- back and forth -- between good memories and difficult ones. You're not complaining -- keep posting as you think of things that strike you. It sounds like this is one of those times when you just need to "feel it" and allow yourself to grieve however you need to. Many hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 Thanks for all the wonderful encouragement. You'll are the BEST!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pewjumper Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Tina, I was driving up to Oak Ridge last Friday and passed Faith Promise and thought about you and Charlie, and it hit me that you have all these anniversaries coming up and I said a prayer for you. And I'll do that again, every day. Praying for peace and comfort for you and your children this year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Tina, Iam so sorry I will never forget that day. It was my B-day and I was upbeat, then I read about your Charlie and it just broke my heart. I will be thinking of you and I pray for strength for you to get through that horrific day. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted March 21, 2008 Author Share Posted March 21, 2008 Thanks Mitchell and Maryanne! Everyone's prayers are soooooo appreciated!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welthy Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 Tina, I know how hard these days are for you. Please know many (including me) are thinking and supporting you through prayers and good thoughts. Hugs, Welthy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 I know what it is like to have that "block of time" every year... Wishing you the easiest time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 ((((Tina))))) You are a gift to us here. Always. I'm sorry for the days of heightened memory. You made Charlie special to us too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pewjumper Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 "Treebywater"]((((Tina))))) You are a gift to us here. Always. I'm sorry for the days of heightened memory. You made Charlie special to us too. That says it better than I ever could, Tina. Still praying for you and thought of you today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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